Dyke is loveDyke isThe spiral notebook under your mattress that weeps and moans and laughsand the deleted internet historyand the pride you feel even as you hideDyke is marching at Prideknowing that you areunited with the queersadmitted to a communitybecause you are a dykeand wondering if that may be ridiculousDyke is smashing gender rolesreclaiming words, labelsand breaking free of themDyke is drag kings and evening gownsMothers, daughters, familiesComing out, being outed, closet casesHesitating, deliberatingQuestioning, persistingDyke is falling in love with a person, not a genderand falling in love with a gender while searching for a personDyke is writing an essay exposing you to your professor and peerslike a mollusk being opened, exposing it's pale, vulnerable innardsthat you knew had been contained withinbut were still protected with a shroud of secrecyDyke is giving your partner long kisses goodbye at the bus stopCandlelit dinners and bar cruisingAnd knowing when you are single you remain a dykeDyke isThe lonely desperation of small-town isolationwearing rainbow jewelery and protest pins hoping someone will noticeor you'll see someone with them tooDyke is being who you areA womanA woman who loves other womanA woman who wouldn't want it any other wayDyke is beautifulDyke is who I am Dyke is love
Sunday, November 25, 2007
DYKE
Dyke is loveDyke isThe spiral notebook under your mattress that weeps and moans and laughsand the deleted internet historyand the pride you feel even as you hideDyke is marching at Prideknowing that you areunited with the queersadmitted to a communitybecause you are a dykeand wondering if that may be ridiculousDyke is smashing gender rolesreclaiming words, labelsand breaking free of themDyke is drag kings and evening gownsMothers, daughters, familiesComing out, being outed, closet casesHesitating, deliberatingQuestioning, persistingDyke is falling in love with a person, not a genderand falling in love with a gender while searching for a personDyke is writing an essay exposing you to your professor and peerslike a mollusk being opened, exposing it's pale, vulnerable innardsthat you knew had been contained withinbut were still protected with a shroud of secrecyDyke is giving your partner long kisses goodbye at the bus stopCandlelit dinners and bar cruisingAnd knowing when you are single you remain a dykeDyke isThe lonely desperation of small-town isolationwearing rainbow jewelery and protest pins hoping someone will noticeor you'll see someone with them tooDyke is being who you areA womanA woman who loves other womanA woman who wouldn't want it any other wayDyke is beautifulDyke is who I am Dyke is love
اصل كلمه Gay
اصل كلمه Gay
GAYهذه الكلمة التي تعني السعادة، كيف تحول معناها ليصبح مثلي؟ وماهي المراحل التاريخية التي مرت بها حتى تأخذ معنى المثلية بدلا من السعادة، وهل لا زالت تحمل نفس المعنى القديم؟كلمة جاي تعني السعادة والبهجة، ولم يكن لها اي علاقة بالمثلية والمثليين، وتحولت هذه الكلمة لتعني المثليين خلال القرن العشرين، وهي مشتقة من الكلمة الفرنسية القديمةgaiفي اواخر القرن السابع عشر اخذت هذه الكلمة تأخذ اول معنى جنسي لها، فتم اقترانها بمعنى "المتعلق بالمتعة".. وفي اواخر القرن التاسع عشر انتشر مصطلحgay lifeوكانوا يقصدون به الافعال الغير اخلاقية على حد تعبيرهمفي بداية عام 1920 تم تحويل الكلمة لتشمل المثليين، وكان المثليين يطلقون كلمة جاي على انفسهم ليظهروا للعالم انهم في منتهى السعادة والبهجة في هم عليه وانهم منسجمين مع ميولهم الجنسيةالى الان، هناك بعض الكتاب الامريكيين والذين لديهم عداء تجاه المثليين يطالبون بارجاء كلمة جاي لمعناها الاصلي وان لا تقترن بالمثليين، ويطالبون بأن تكون الكلمة الوحيدة لوصفهم هي كلمةQUEERوالتي تعني اصلا الانشقاق على الطريق المستقيم، ويقولون ان ليس كل المثليين جاي لانه ليس بالضرورة كلهم سعداء...ولكن ما يثير غضبهم هو انه حتى كلمة كوير اصبحت متداولة مما يعني رضى المثليين عن انفسهم..وهذا ما يثير غيض العنصريين لان كل محاولاتهم اليائسة في سبيل الحط من قيمة المثليين قد باءت بالفشل الذريع...شي يديد تعلمته....أنجوووووووووووووي...
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عند حــايــز كل شي جــايــز
عند حــايــز كل شي جــايــز
Monday, November 12, 2007
Friday, November 9, 2007
True Friends Last Fo-Eva
Mâ TяUø Fяîeηd
Written with a pen Seald with a kiss If you are ma friend Please answer this Are we friends or are we not ?You told me once, but I forgetSo tell me now and tell me true So I can say I'm here for you Of all the friends i ever metYou are the one i wont ever forgotAnd if I die before you doJust know that I died for a true friend like you I neva knew that life is so true Just bein with youMa true friend
http://alsaher.com/music/audio/friends.ram
Written with a pen Seald with a kiss If you are ma friend Please answer this Are we friends or are we not ?You told me once, but I forgetSo tell me now and tell me true So I can say I'm here for you Of all the friends i ever metYou are the one i wont ever forgotAnd if I die before you doJust know that I died for a true friend like you I neva knew that life is so true Just bein with youMa true friend
http://alsaher.com/music/audio/friends.ram
Allow Me....
Allow Me....
Come to me in a warm and private place...
Share with me the attraction you see in my eyes...
Allow me to stand before you and undress you...
Allow me to run a bath for you...
Washing all the stresses of your day away...
Allow me to run my lips across your succulent body...
Allow my tongue to find the sweetest that lies between those luscious thighs...
Ahh. your taste is so refreshing and sweet...
Allow yourself to rest within my embrace...
Run your legs across my body and bring me closer your sweetness...
Feel my tongue encircle your sweet wonder of love...
Lightly...... Ever so lightly... I will make your ocean flow....
Bringing you to the place that only you and I can share.
I feel your ocean rush towards my face.
I smell the sweetness of your passion released.
Hold on Baby, tonight is ours.
Tonight we will fly to the rainbow, that sits across the sky.
Tonight , u'll be ma " Lesbo " .. Let's fly , up so high
Come to me in a warm and private place...
Share with me the attraction you see in my eyes...
Allow me to stand before you and undress you...
Allow me to run a bath for you...
Washing all the stresses of your day away...
Allow me to run my lips across your succulent body...
Allow my tongue to find the sweetest that lies between those luscious thighs...
Ahh. your taste is so refreshing and sweet...
Allow yourself to rest within my embrace...
Run your legs across my body and bring me closer your sweetness...
Feel my tongue encircle your sweet wonder of love...
Lightly...... Ever so lightly... I will make your ocean flow....
Bringing you to the place that only you and I can share.
I feel your ocean rush towards my face.
I smell the sweetness of your passion released.
Hold on Baby, tonight is ours.
Tonight we will fly to the rainbow, that sits across the sky.
Tonight , u'll be ma " Lesbo " .. Let's fly , up so high
Memories
Do not cry my love.
Do not be afraid of your memories.
They make us who we are today and who we become tomorrow.
Embrace your memories good and bad.
Learn from each and every one of them.
For each has a special gift to offer you.
Each, if taken in can help you become a better person.
A more understanding and compassionate friend to yourself and to others.
So wipe your tears away and allow yourself to see the rainbow above your head.
Memories are not something to dread.
They are facets of your life that one day become the fine crystals everyone admires
Do not be afraid of your memories.
They make us who we are today and who we become tomorrow.
Embrace your memories good and bad.
Learn from each and every one of them.
For each has a special gift to offer you.
Each, if taken in can help you become a better person.
A more understanding and compassionate friend to yourself and to others.
So wipe your tears away and allow yourself to see the rainbow above your head.
Memories are not something to dread.
They are facets of your life that one day become the fine crystals everyone admires
by:
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I cry
I call for help;
They look the other way;
I need someone
You're not our kind;
How can I change;
Talk! Someone will listen;
But I don't know where I'm going;
Just be yourself;
Then how do I change;
Be yourself, just don't fall;
Ok, only it's a rough road;
We will help;
Help, there's a pit;
Jump;
But now a river;
Swim;
I'm here, at last;
There's no going back;
No one's there, no one see's me;
No roads lead back;
Help, help, please help me;
They laugh.
They look the other way;
I need someone
You're not our kind;
How can I change;
Talk! Someone will listen;
But I don't know where I'm going;
Just be yourself;
Then how do I change;
Be yourself, just don't fall;
Ok, only it's a rough road;
We will help;
Help, there's a pit;
Jump;
But now a river;
Swim;
I'm here, at last;
There's no going back;
No one's there, no one see's me;
No roads lead back;
Help, help, please help me;
They laugh.
Thursday, November 8, 2007
lesbian MASK
lesbian MASK
( Behind The Mask I Wear )
behind the mask i wear
is a person i hate to be
because nobody ever gets the chance,
to see the real me.
behind the mask i wear
a coward lay behind
afraid of what the world dished out
with no safe place to find.
behind the mask i wear
a child runs from fear.
the boogeyman's out to get me
"oh daddy, are you near?"
behind the mask i wear
is a drunken sore that's me
to thirst that drink, it made me think
what a messed up girl, i be.
behind the mask i wear
fat clings to my bones.
no one loves me for what they see
dont call me names, throw stones.
behind the mask i wear
to look into the miror,
a child wanders aimlessly
as old age draws nearer.
behind the mask i wear
a new one's just been found
a mask that changed my attitude
and turned my life around.
Behind The New Mask I Wear
A New Gurl Not Like Before
Livin' A Perfect Life
A Happy Lesbian And Much More
Behind The New Mask I Wear
Got No More Tears
All Ma Friends Around Me Now
I Through Away Those Fears
No More Hurts,
No More Pains
Thanks God For Bein' Lesb
I'm Alive Again ...
" Lesbian Is Not A Durty Word "
( Behind The Mask I Wear )
behind the mask i wear
is a person i hate to be
because nobody ever gets the chance,
to see the real me.
behind the mask i wear
a coward lay behind
afraid of what the world dished out
with no safe place to find.
behind the mask i wear
a child runs from fear.
the boogeyman's out to get me
"oh daddy, are you near?"
behind the mask i wear
is a drunken sore that's me
to thirst that drink, it made me think
what a messed up girl, i be.
behind the mask i wear
fat clings to my bones.
no one loves me for what they see
dont call me names, throw stones.
behind the mask i wear
to look into the miror,
a child wanders aimlessly
as old age draws nearer.
behind the mask i wear
a new one's just been found
a mask that changed my attitude
and turned my life around.
Behind The New Mask I Wear
A New Gurl Not Like Before
Livin' A Perfect Life
A Happy Lesbian And Much More
Behind The New Mask I Wear
Got No More Tears
All Ma Friends Around Me Now
I Through Away Those Fears
No More Hurts,
No More Pains
Thanks God For Bein' Lesb
I'm Alive Again ...
" Lesbian Is Not A Durty Word "
everything about tomboy(Androgyne)
everything about tomboy(Androgyne)
everything about tomboy Tomboy tomboy is a girl who behaves according to the stereotypical gender role of a boy. This can include various things: Wearing non-feminine clothes, typically for comfort or practicality or sport Enjoying boy's stereotypical games, interests and activities, such as running, jumping, climbing trees, science, and sports like soccer and baseball. Many girls can be seen as exhibiting a mixture of both tomboy and girly girl behavior(androgyne)and this has been held up by many as the "ideal" female lifestyle as their view is that if a girl either exhibits an extreme image of a tomboy or a girly girl, she misses out on too many experiences.� However, critics of this hold that such an idealistic image of an intermediate, "uni-sex" behavior is a stereotype by itself, and too general to actually mean anything. Some contribute, and some tomboys themselves think, the substantial cause of their inclination is spending their childhood and/or adolescence in an environment where the male presence or action predominates, and having therefore a lack of female role models. For example, a family with: more than 2 brothers and 1 or fewer sister, or a single father a school mostly of boys, hence the tomboy befriends few girls. Historically tomboys were defined by both behaviour (according to the stereotypical gender role of boys) and wearing boys' clothing. In recent times, as the use of "traditional" clothing such as dresses, blouses and skirts steadily declines among females, the distinction has become almost solely one of behaviour. A general increase in the popularity of woman's sporting events, (see Title IX), and other activities that were traditionally male-dominated is today lessening the impact of "tomboy" as a pejorative. many tomboys are androgyne........ Androgyne An androgyne is a person who feels that they do not fit cleanly into society's boxes labeled men and woman. An androgyne may identify with the gender identity of a combination of male and female or as neither / neutrally gendered. They may also use the terms non-gendered or bigendered. They may experience swings between genders. An androgyne is a person with the gender identity of either both male and female or neither. It is a misconception that androgyny is just a fashion statement, behavior, or set of visual cues. One could say that all androgynes are psychologically androgynous, whereas not all androgynous-looking people are androgynes. Androgynes sometimes refer to themselves using blended pronouns like Ze, Hir etc, and use a gender tag Mx instead of Mr. or Mrs. tomboy: 1. A girl with boyish ways, interests and behaviors; a boyish or butch girl . 2-agirl who wants to do boys stuff dress in sport is very active a tomgirl she didn't want to be a boy . She just wanted to do-the-things boys do shes very athletic adventurous ,strong ,direct , self-confident ,rude , rough, tough, logical ,mechanically-minded 2. A lesbian ; obviously meant to be jocular or sarcastic, but perceived as disparaging. androgynous: Being neither distinguishably masculine nor feminine ; blending both traditional male and traditional female what is atomboy ?. A tomboy is a girl who behaves according to the stereotypical gender role of a boy. This can include various things: Wearing non-feminine clothes, typically for comfort or practicality. Enjoying boy's stereotypical games, interests and activities, such as running, jumping, climbing trees, science and baseball. Many girls can be seen as exhibiting a mixture of both tomboy and girly girl behavior, and this has been held up by many as the "ideal" female lifestyle as their view is that if a girl either exhibits an extreme image of a tomboy or a girly girl, she misses out on too many experiences.� However, critics of this hold that such an idealistic image of an intermediate, "uni-sex" behavior is a stereotype by itself, and too general to actually mean anything. Some contribute, and some tomboys themselves think, the substantial cause of their inclination is spending their childhood and/or adolescence in an environment where the male presence or action predominates, and having therefore a lack of female role models. For example, a family with: more than 2 brothers and 1 or less sister, or a single father a school mostly of boys, hence the tomboy befriends few girls. Historically tomboys were defined by both behaviour (according to the stereotypical gender role of boys) and wearing boys' clothing. In recent times, as the use of "traditional" clothing such as dresses, blouses and skirts steadily declines among females, the distinction has become almost solely one of behaviour.
everything about tomboy Tomboy tomboy is a girl who behaves according to the stereotypical gender role of a boy. This can include various things: Wearing non-feminine clothes, typically for comfort or practicality or sport Enjoying boy's stereotypical games, interests and activities, such as running, jumping, climbing trees, science, and sports like soccer and baseball. Many girls can be seen as exhibiting a mixture of both tomboy and girly girl behavior(androgyne)and this has been held up by many as the "ideal" female lifestyle as their view is that if a girl either exhibits an extreme image of a tomboy or a girly girl, she misses out on too many experiences.� However, critics of this hold that such an idealistic image of an intermediate, "uni-sex" behavior is a stereotype by itself, and too general to actually mean anything. Some contribute, and some tomboys themselves think, the substantial cause of their inclination is spending their childhood and/or adolescence in an environment where the male presence or action predominates, and having therefore a lack of female role models. For example, a family with: more than 2 brothers and 1 or fewer sister, or a single father a school mostly of boys, hence the tomboy befriends few girls. Historically tomboys were defined by both behaviour (according to the stereotypical gender role of boys) and wearing boys' clothing. In recent times, as the use of "traditional" clothing such as dresses, blouses and skirts steadily declines among females, the distinction has become almost solely one of behaviour. A general increase in the popularity of woman's sporting events, (see Title IX), and other activities that were traditionally male-dominated is today lessening the impact of "tomboy" as a pejorative. many tomboys are androgyne........ Androgyne An androgyne is a person who feels that they do not fit cleanly into society's boxes labeled men and woman. An androgyne may identify with the gender identity of a combination of male and female or as neither / neutrally gendered. They may also use the terms non-gendered or bigendered. They may experience swings between genders. An androgyne is a person with the gender identity of either both male and female or neither. It is a misconception that androgyny is just a fashion statement, behavior, or set of visual cues. One could say that all androgynes are psychologically androgynous, whereas not all androgynous-looking people are androgynes. Androgynes sometimes refer to themselves using blended pronouns like Ze, Hir etc, and use a gender tag Mx instead of Mr. or Mrs. tomboy: 1. A girl with boyish ways, interests and behaviors; a boyish or butch girl . 2-agirl who wants to do boys stuff dress in sport is very active a tomgirl she didn't want to be a boy . She just wanted to do-the-things boys do shes very athletic adventurous ,strong ,direct , self-confident ,rude , rough, tough, logical ,mechanically-minded 2. A lesbian ; obviously meant to be jocular or sarcastic, but perceived as disparaging. androgynous: Being neither distinguishably masculine nor feminine ; blending both traditional male and traditional female what is atomboy ?. A tomboy is a girl who behaves according to the stereotypical gender role of a boy. This can include various things: Wearing non-feminine clothes, typically for comfort or practicality. Enjoying boy's stereotypical games, interests and activities, such as running, jumping, climbing trees, science and baseball. Many girls can be seen as exhibiting a mixture of both tomboy and girly girl behavior, and this has been held up by many as the "ideal" female lifestyle as their view is that if a girl either exhibits an extreme image of a tomboy or a girly girl, she misses out on too many experiences.� However, critics of this hold that such an idealistic image of an intermediate, "uni-sex" behavior is a stereotype by itself, and too general to actually mean anything. Some contribute, and some tomboys themselves think, the substantial cause of their inclination is spending their childhood and/or adolescence in an environment where the male presence or action predominates, and having therefore a lack of female role models. For example, a family with: more than 2 brothers and 1 or less sister, or a single father a school mostly of boys, hence the tomboy befriends few girls. Historically tomboys were defined by both behaviour (according to the stereotypical gender role of boys) and wearing boys' clothing. In recent times, as the use of "traditional" clothing such as dresses, blouses and skirts steadily declines among females, the distinction has become almost solely one of behaviour.
Lesbian Truth vs. A Misunderstood Society View
Lesbian Truth vs. A Misunderstood Society
View Society View: Lesbians look and act like men. Often referred to as "dykes". Lesbian Fact: Although there are some lesbians who do fit into the stereotypical description, there are plenty of lesbians who are very feminine looking and acting. I didn't know a lesbian had to play the part of a dyke to be initiated into lesbian hood. Society View: Lesbians were abused as young girls or had a bad experience with men. Lesbian Fact: The sad fact is that there are a lot of women (straight and lesbian) were abused as children. However, there are plenty of lesbians who were NOT abused as children and who did NOT have bad experiences with men. The fact is this: You are either born gay or you're not. You will realize it when you're young, older, old, or never. Society View: Being lesbian is a choice. Lesbian Fact: Thinking that being homosexual is a choice is like saying being attracted to blondes, red heads, brunettes, fat, skinny, black, white, Asian, or Hispanics is a choice. they do NOT choose who they fall in love with nor do they choose who they are attracted to. lesbians were NEVER attracted to the opposite sex since the day they were born. Although some may have dated the opposite sex in younger years or married in adult years, that doesn't mean that their attraction to the same sex was not there. It simply means that their "denial" superseded their inner awakening and identity. Many lesbians claim after coming out that they knew in the back of their mind that they were attracted to the same sex, but they "settled" on dating or marrying the opposite sex for not wanting to go against what society wants from them. It takes a courageous person to "come out of the closet" and admit to who they are. There are also many that will tell you that by their "choice" to marry the opposite sex didn't make them happy NOR make their partner happy in the long run. Was it fair to marry a man who you know you would never truly be fully in love with or be attracted to? Is this fair to the man not ever being fully loved (mind, body, and soul) by his wife? Is it fair to the woman to give up her desires for someone that is not for her and a lifestyle that will never make her truly happy? The ONLY choice that was made in these situations were not to being themselves and being true to themselves or to the person they married. Not living for you is a choice. Pretending is a choice. One more statement regarding "choice": Who in their right mind would "choose" to be lesbian knowing the battlefield (societies ignorance and hatred) that lays out there for homosexuals? Society View: Being a homosexual is all about sex. Lesbian Fact: Indeed there is a sexual factor in "homosexuality"; same as "heterosexuality". Sex and love are two entities. Anyone can have sex; only people in love make love. Most homosexuals are like anyone else --- they are looking for "love". In other words, homosexuals prefer the same sex partners for love and with love comes love making
PROUD OF BEING A LESBIAN
Yes I AM SO PROUD OF BEING A FEMALE AND A LESBIAN. I became a lesbian because of women, because women are beautiful, strong, and compassionate. "Rita Mae Brown " -You can't type what a lesbian is. We're anything and everything. The one thing in common is that we make love to other women. So give up trying to limit us. "Amanda Bearse, actor, television director " - There is nothing mixed up about a woman who loves women, who wants to have sex with them, or who identifies as a lesbian. It is society that is mixed up because it punishes people for not conforming to its gender stereotypes. "Edward Stein, editor of Forms of Desire: Sexual Orientation and the Social Constructionist Controversy" -But the fruit that can fall without shaking , Indeed is too mellow for me. "Lady Mary Wortley Montagu in The Answer " -Are there many things in this cool-hearted world so utterly exquisite as the pure love of one woman for another? "Mary MacLane, The Story of Mary MacLane by Herself " -Why should I paint dead fish, onions, and beer glasses?Girls are so much prettier. " Marie Laurencin, artist "
Being a lesbian Is Not....
Some ppl think that being a lesbian is da (curse) from God! and that by knowing one,they would be Sinner and would be thrown to Hell..!! Well for me,Being a _lesbian is not a Big deal..I mean I can accept the fact of having different ppl,with different mentality and cabability as well.. I can accept them as long as they are Human being..I dont even say that Eww this is a Bi-Sexual..gay ...black or whatever Being _lesbian... Is like that you have it in your nature...(tomboy) Acting in a Masculine way sometimes (I forgot the right spelling for the word but what I meant is in manly way)... I do have male friends..But I cant think of'em as lovers..Its like when you ask one guy (can u kiss ur best male friend and he says Eww!! Nope!! Never!!)..
lesbian pride
lesbian pride
It's truly not fair that you can have monogamous affairs and unfaithful relation, but the whole nation looks at us as " Lesbians" the start of that inflation. Every body say that we are a devil's creation for showing affection we become the infected people, like we are a disease or some common sickness... they talk so much trash, about how wrong I am, and that the promise land doesn't have a place for me. Last time I checked I didn't have to answer to anyone but the man upstairs" GOD" , but you don't care, the lord and me share, something that human hands can never tear. I can't blame them for not being open-minded, but at least take time to find the piece that's missing. Instead of dissing my lifestyle, make time here worthwhile, because whether you like it or not I'm still going to smile. Maybe you haven't realized it yet, or your brain is too small to accept the concept or maybe it's something you just don't get but. I'M A LESBIAN, so get over it!!!!!! *
There Is Nothing WRONG..
There's nothing ::Extraordinary----> when 2 gUrlZ talk all day long There's nothing ::Out of the ordinary----> when 2 gUrlZ talk all night long There's nothing :: Eccentric----> when 2 gUrlZ make love There's nothing :: Peculiar ----> when 2 gUrlZ hug There's nothing :: Strange----> when 2 gUrlZ sleep together There's nothing :: Unethical----> when 2 gUrlZ enjoy being girls There's nothing :: bizarre----> when 2 gUrlZ hold hands There's nothing :: weird----> when 2 gUrlZ kiss There's nothing :: inappropriate---->when 2 gUrlZ fall in love There's nothing :: wrong---->when 2 gUrlZ feel that is right
How do i know if i am a lesbian????????
How do i know if i am a lesbian????????
How do i know if i am a lesbian???????? Lesbians are women-loving-women. We are women who are sexually attracted to other women. We are women who may feel emotionally and spiritually closer to women. We are women who prefer women as our partners. As lesbians, we are not alone. One out of ten teenagers is lesbian or gay. Many famous women in history were lesbians. Lesbians are teachers, doctors, lawyers, factory workers, police officers, politicians, ministers, movie stars, artists, mothers, nuns, truck drivers, models, novelists. You name it, we do it. Lesbians are White, Black, Asian, Hispanic, Native American, Jewish, Catholic, Protestant, Buddhist. Lesbians are rich, poor, working class, and middle class. Some lesbians are in heterosexual marriages. Some lesbians are disabled. Lesbians are young women and old women. You name it, we are it. Lesbians live in cities and in the country. We are everywhere!!
all about lesbian &soft butch (Androgyny)
all about lesbian &soft butch (Androgyny)
What does it mean to be a lesbian? Lesbians are women-loving- women. We are women who are sexually attracted to other women. We are women who may feel emotionally and spiritually closer to women. We are women who prefer women as our partners. As lesbians, we are not alone. One out of ten teenagers is lesbian or gay. Many famous women in history were lesbians. Lesbians are teachers, doctors, lawyers, factory workers, police officers, politicians, ministers, movie stars, artists, mothers, nuns, truck drivers, models, novelists. You name it, we do it. Lesbians are White, Black, Asian, Hispanic, Native American, Jewish, Catholic, Protestant, Buddhist. Lesbians are rich, poor, working class, and middle class. Some lesbians are in heterosexual marriages. Some lesbians are disabled. Lesbians are young women and old women. You name it, we are it. Lesbians live in cities and in the country. We are everywhere. How do I know if I'm a lesbian? During adolescence, most young women begin to be aware of sexual feelings and take an interest in dating. Many young women feel physically attracted to men. But many other young women feel physically attracted to other women. You may notice that you feel turned on by other women. You may feel different from your girlfriends, like you don't fit in sometimes. When your girlfriends are checking out boys, you may find yourself checking out girls. Going out with boys may not interest you. You may find yourself wondering, "Why aren't there any men like these terrific women I keep meeting?" You may also feel confused or unsure about whether or not you're a lesbian. Many adults will tell us that we're too young to call ourselves gay, or that we're going through a phase, or that we don't know what we're talking about. That's their way of avoiding the fact that some of us are lesbian youth. You may feel confused because you're attracted to both men and women. That's OK. Some women have relationships with both men and women throughout their lives. Some may later decide to be exclusively lesbian or heterosexual. Our sexuality develops over time. Don't worry if you aren't sure. Am I normal? Yes, you are normal. It's perfectly natural for people to be attracted to members of their own sex. But it's not something that's encouraged in our society. Many people push away these feelings because of prejudice against gay men and lesbians. Most scientific experts agree that a person's sexual orientation is determined at a very young age, maybe even at birth. It's normal and healthy to be yourself, whether you're gay or straight. What's really important is that we learn to like ourselves. How do we learn to like ourselves All people have a right to feel good about themselves. We're all valuable human beings. Developing self-esteem is very important for young people. It's hard for gay and lesbian youth to feel good about ourselves because all around us are people who believe that we're sick, or perverted, or destined to live very unhappy lives. When we feel like we have to hide who we really are, it can make us feel like hurting ourselves, like through alcohol, drugs, or suicide. We may feel very isolated, fearful, and depressed, especially if we've had no one to talk to about the fact that we're lesbians. More and more, we, as young lesbians, are learning to like who we are. It helps to read good books about lesbians -- books that have accurate information in them and that are written about lesbians who are leading very fulfilling lives. It also helps to meet other lesbians because then we find out that lesbians are as diverse as any other group of people and that we've been told a lot of lies by our society. It can help to say to yourself every day, "I'm a lesbian and I'm OK." And try to find someone to talk to who also believes that lesbians are OK. Remember: it's normal and natural to be a lesbian, just like it's normal and natural for some people to be heterosexual. What about sex? Deciding whether or not to be sexual with someone is a big decision. You may feel very scared at the thought of having sex with another women. That's OK. Lots of us do, especially if it's our first time. Women aren't encouraged in our society to talk openly about sex, but it's important that we communicate about what we like and don't like to do sexually, whether we feel ready to have sex or not, and different expectations we may have about the relationship. And it's important to talk about whether we're at risk for HIV, the virus that is thought to cause AIDS, or other sexually transmitted diseases, like herpes. There are many ways that lesbians can be sexual with each other. We can give each other pleasure by holding, kissing, hugging, stroking, stimulating each other's genitals with our tongues and hands, inserting our fingers into each other's vaginas, rubbing our bodies together to stimulate each other, and anything else we want to do. We can use our imaginations! A soft butch is a lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch lesbian traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians. These traits may or may not include short hair, clothing that was designed for men, and masculine mannerisms and behaviors. Soft butches generally appear androgynous, rather than adhering to strictly feminine or masculine norms. In the spectrum of gender _expression among lesbians, a soft butch lies in between a chapstick lesbian and a butch lesbian. We are androgynous. We are beautiful. Androgyny is a term that can refer to two concepts regarding the mixing of both male and female genders or having a lack of gender identification. The first is the mixing of masculine and feminine characteristics, be it the example of the loud fashion statements of musicians like David Bowie, Annie Lenox and Brian Molko or the balance of "anima" and "animus" in Jungian psychoanalytic theory. The second is in describing something that is neither masculine nor feminine, for example the Hijras of India who are often described as "neither man nor woman". Androgynous traits are those that either have no gender value, or have some aspects generally attributed to the opposite gender. The term androgynous is often used to refer to a person whose look or build make determining their gender difficult but is generally not used as a synonym for actual intersexuality, transgender or two-spirit people. Lesbians who don't define themselves as butch or femme may identify with various other labels including androgynous or 'androg' for short
jion my group
jion the group my 4 boyat and all kind of lesbians: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Q8Lesbian
and this group also:
or contect the owner of the group if u cant jion in:
if u can enter or ther is aproplem just connect me or email me
Dike, Dyke
There are girls who dress like men who hate being called queer, butch, homo, or dyke. It’s understandable, the first three being offensive. But why should a woman be offended by being called dyke? This is because dyke has become a slang word. Let’s take it back.
We are named after Dike, the Greek goddess of moral justice. Why, I don’t know. But we are goddesses in ourselves. And when we are called butch, homo, fag, we forget that. Be proud. You are a Dike. You are a dyke.
We are named after Dike, the Greek goddess of moral justice. Why, I don’t know. But we are goddesses in ourselves. And when we are called butch, homo, fag, we forget that. Be proud. You are a Dike. You are a dyke.
Thursday, November 1, 2007
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فلي هفواتي الصغيرة ولي أخطائي المريرة ولي ذنوبي التي أرجو أن لا تكون كبيرة .
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فقد أحقد ولكني سرعان ما أنسى ... وقد أغار ولكني سرعان ما أبحث عن التعقل
وقد أغتاظ ولكني سرعان ما أسعى خلف الرضا ..
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فقد أظن بأحدهم سوء ولكني أعود وأطلب الصفو والسماح
وألتمس العذر لتقصيري وتسرعي وقد أفهمه خطأ ولكني أبحث عن الحقيقة
أو أتناسى ما حدث حتى أنساه بالفعل ..
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فلي حماقاتي ... ولي جنوني ... ولي لحظاتي ولي جوانب عدة قد لا أحبها وقد أحبها
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فقد أعيش في زمن غير زمني ... وقد أتقمص شخصية ليست لي
وقد أبحث عن شىء لا أملكه وأود بأن أملكه ... وقد أسعى إلى ما لا يجب أن أسعى إليه
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
قد لا أمتلك أجنحة بيضاء أو قلبا شديد البياض
وقد يكون أبيض ولو قليلا وقد لا يكون شيئا غير السواد وأنا لا أدري .
•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
ولكننـــــــي لست شيطاناً
فأنا إنسان بسيط ... أقدر قيمة الإعتذار حينما يكون واجب
وأقدر روعة التضحية إذا صار وقتها
وأسعى لغرس معنى الأخوة في نفسي قبل نفوس من حولي
وأمتلك قلبا شديد البياض يحمل بداخلــه الكثير من الحب ..
فلي هفواتي الصغيرة ولي أخطائي المريرة ولي ذنوبي التي أرجو أن لا تكون كبيرة .
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فقد أحقد ولكني سرعان ما أنسى ... وقد أغار ولكني سرعان ما أبحث عن التعقل
وقد أغتاظ ولكني سرعان ما أسعى خلف الرضا ..
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فقد أظن بأحدهم سوء ولكني أعود وأطلب الصفو والسماح
وألتمس العذر لتقصيري وتسرعي وقد أفهمه خطأ ولكني أبحث عن الحقيقة
أو أتناسى ما حدث حتى أنساه بالفعل ..
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فلي حماقاتي ... ولي جنوني ... ولي لحظاتي ولي جوانب عدة قد لا أحبها وقد أحبها
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فقد أعيش في زمن غير زمني ... وقد أتقمص شخصية ليست لي
وقد أبحث عن شىء لا أملكه وأود بأن أملكه ... وقد أسعى إلى ما لا يجب أن أسعى إليه
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
قد لا أمتلك أجنحة بيضاء أو قلبا شديد البياض
وقد يكون أبيض ولو قليلا وقد لا يكون شيئا غير السواد وأنا لا أدري .
•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
ولكننـــــــي لست شيطاناً
فأنا إنسان بسيط ... أقدر قيمة الإعتذار حينما يكون واجب
وأقدر روعة التضحية إذا صار وقتها
وأسعى لغرس معنى الأخوة في نفسي قبل نفوس من حولي
وأمتلك قلبا شديد البياض يحمل بداخلــه الكثير من الحب ..
Katherine Moennig (Shane McCutcheon)
Katherine Moennig (Shane McCutcheon)
Name : Katherine Sian Moennig .
Birth Date : 29th of December 1977.
Zodiac : Capricorn.
Place of Birth : Philadelphia.
Resides : Los Angeles, Vancouver.
Education : AADA. Hair :
Brown. Eyes :
Green. Height : 5'8.
Favourite food : Sushi.
Favourite colour : Blue.
Favourite movie : Cool hand Luke
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Lesbian Sex tips
Lesbian Sex Tips
Need to spice up your sex life? Check out these sex tips to keep the heat between the sheets!Oral Sex Oral sex with your girlfriend is, I would say, probably one of the most erotic and fulfilling experiences when it comes to sex. The best advice I could give to anyone is to relax and to take your time and explore every single part of her. Use your mouth gently, dont just dive on in there!! Use long strokes with your tongue from top to bottom covering every inch of her, dont be afraid to suck gently on her clit and circular movements with your tongue never fails!! To really blow her away, take her clit into your mouth whilst putting your fingers inside her, try to master the beckoning motion so that you can hit her G-spot at the same time, If this is done correctly this is guaranteed to blow her away every single time!You can read all of the manuals and try to do al the things that the experts tell you but in my opinion when it comes to oral sex breaking "the rules" is the only way to go! Everyone is different and your girlfriend will let you know if she is enjoying it and which part she enjoy's most!
The most important thing to remember is to relax and enjoy it!MasturbatingMasturbating in front of each other is the ultimate turn-on! Watching your lover giving herself pleasure is seriously Indescribable as it is too horny to put into words! A lot of partners have yet to try this as one or both partners can be too shy. You could start of by masturbating yourselves at the same time and then progress on to one partner doing it while the other one watches. Maybe if you partner is the shy one, you could start off by touching her whilst touching yourself, just to show her that there is nothing to be shy about and just how easy it can be!!The 69The sex position known as Sixty Nine allows both partners to go down on each other at the same time. Oral sex is a great activity! A lot of people say that the special delight of sixty-nine comes from the mutuality, doubling pleasure and warmth-it's an equal sharing, feeling the same joys, given to each other, at the same time, in the same position, at a very intimate level, mixed with this is the obvious bonus that both partners can come at the same time. A Sixty Nine can be very pleasurable for both partners and can add a little bit of variety to oral sex! The Sixty Nine can be done in two different positions, with one partner on top of the other or with both partners lying on there side.
Ride your partners handOK I know this may sound a little strange but don't let that deter you even though the title of it or thought of it may have you in fits of laughter... trust me it will be having you in fits of pleasure later on. The way this position works is rather than you touching your girlfriend in the way you want to touch her, simply place your hand underneath her in bed (or wherever you may be laying down!), slip her onto your fingers and let her do the work... let her move in the way she wants to move to pleasure herself, in a sense she is F###### your hand... you may position your fingers onto her clit slightly harder at times to help her out a little but she will press and move harder as and when she wants to... and trust me when she cums it will be explosive! This is also a great experience for you, as you can feel exactly what she wants, how hard she is pressing, F######, and finally how hard she is Cuming...From the Front and BehindThis one is definitely one to try, essentially this is doing you girlfriend from both the front and behind. As you are laying next to her, she should have her right leg on your hip with her legs slightly open, you should then place your left arm over her so that you can touch her from behind (with your left hand). Then, with your right hand begin to touch her clit, play a little, don't go straight in... get her into it... once you can feel her really getting into what you are doing to her and how you are making her feel, then begin touching her from behind also, as you rub her clit harder, also show her how wet she is by slipping your fingers slowly around her clit... now you should put your finger inside her and move this in the beckoning motion as you rub her clit hard again, continue to do this until you sense she is close to cuming, then move your finger in / out fast (essentially truly F###### her), as you continue to rub her clit hard, you may insert two fingers if you / she wishes. This will make her feel amazing as not only are you touching her in one of the most intimate ways, you are also deep inside her.F### your Partners LegAs you lay next to your partner, begin to play with her with your hand, touch her gently... be passionate, caressing all of her... Once you sense she is arroused then turn and get one of your partner's legs between your legs, grip this with your legs, and as you touch her slowly rock on her leg, so that this presses on your clit. As you touch her harder, then rock harder... this is a great way of cuming together. It is a great turn on for your partner also as she can feel just how hard you are rubbing yourself onto her, as you are touching her at the same time.Erotic MassagePut on some Romantic music, dim the lights and burn some candles. Place a duvet on the floor and then bring your partner into the room, leading her by the hand. Lay her down and slowly undress her as you kiss her. It is best to do this with some Oils, or alternatively you can also use Moisturiser. Put some oil or cream on your hands and run your hands all over your partners body, sensually rubbing the oil or cream into her skin. Mix hard rubbing and soft rubbing, and each time you run your hands over her body from top to bottom, get closer to her inner thigh and breasts, so she gasps each time you get closer. This is a very sensual and passionate feeling for both of you.Now begin to get a little harder with your touch, and as you get near to her breasts hold them hard in your hands, so your partner can feel how much you desire her. Kiss her neck and follow down her stomach, then back up and kiss her on her soft lips. Then hold her face and kiss her deeply, as you again cup her breasts tight in your hands. Now, begin to massage her again across the whole of her body, this time combining hard and soft massage movements with soft tickling with your nails. This combination of touching your partner will envoque an an amazing combination of feelings across her body. As you near her breasts, again caress these and kiss her passionately, and whisper to her softly how much you love her, and how amazing she feels and how much you desire her. As you run your hands back down her body slowly brush your fingers over her clit, then kiss her again, as you touch her deeply on her clit, tell her how much you love to hear her moan, and kiss her hard, as you touch her harder and deeper..
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