Tuesday, December 18, 2007

PROUD 2 BE LESBIAN ..‏


Lesbian Love Nothing Like It ..Uninhabited , Pure , Natural , Physical , Passionate



It's truly not fair that you can have monogamous affairs and unfaithful relation, but the whole nation looks at us as " Lesbians" the start of that inflation. Every body say that we are a devil's creation for showing affection we become the infected people, like we are a disease or some common sickness... they talk so much trash, about how wrong I am, and that the promise land doesn't have a place for me. Last time I checked I didn't have to answer to anyone but the man upstairs" GOD" , but you don't care, the lord and me share, something that human hands can never tear. I can't blame them for not being open-minded, but at least take time to find the piece that's missing. Instead of dissing my lifestyle, make time here worthwhile, because whether you like it or not I'm still going to smile. Maybe you haven't realized it yet, or your brain is too small to accept the concept or maybe it's something you just don't get but. I'M A LESBIAN, so get over it!!!!!! *

I became a lesbian because of women, because women are beautiful, strong, and compassionate. "Rita Mae Brown "
-You can't type what a lesbian is. We're anything and everything. The one thing in common is that we make love to other women. So give up trying to limit us. "Amanda Bearse, actor, television director "- There is nothing mixed up about a woman who loves women, who wants to have sex with them, or who identifies as a lesbian. It is society that is mixed up because it punishes people for not conforming to its gender stereotypes. "Edward Stein, editor of Forms of Desire: Sexual Orientation and the Social Constructionist Controversy"

-But the fruit that can fall without shaking , Indeed is too mellow for me. "Lady Mary Wortley Montagu in The Answer "


-Are there many things in this cool-hearted world so utterly exquisite as the pure love of one woman for another? "Mary MacLane, The Story of Mary MacLane by Herself "
-Why should I paint dead fish, onions, and beer glasses?Girls are so much prettier. " Marie Laurencin, artist "

::::::SECRETS OF LOVE::::::::::‏

::::::SECRETS OF LOVE::::::::::‏

The first secret: the power of love. Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help recognize him or her when you meet.
The second secret:
the power of respect. You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself, "What do I respect about myself? " To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself, "What do I respect about them?"
The third secret:
the power of giving. If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of you can take.
The fourth secret:
the power of friendship. To find true love you must first find a true friend. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love's seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.
The fifth secret:
the power of touch. Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.
The sixth secret:
the power of letting go. If you love something, let it be free. Even in a loving relationship, people need their space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions.
The seventh secret: the power of communication. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know; that you love and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say, "I love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praise and acknowledge someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word ... it could be the last time you see them.
The eighth secret: the power of commitment. If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong, loving one.
The ninth secret:
the power of passion. Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone. It comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. The essence of love and happiness are the same, all we need to do is to live each day with passion.
The tenth secret: the power of trust. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Trust yourself, trust others and trust the world. It is the foundation for LOVE.

Monday, December 17, 2007

Rainbow Flag History‏


Rainbow Flag History‏


Color has long played an important role in our community's expression of pride. In Victorian England, for example, the color green was associated with homosexuality. The color purple (or, more accurately, lavender) became popularized as a symbol for pride in the late 1960s -- a frequent post-Stonewall catchword for the gay community was "Purple Power." And, of course, there's the pink triangle. Although it was first used in Nazi Germany to identify gay males in concentration camps, the pink triangle only received widespread use as a gay pop icon in the early 1980s. But the most colorful of our symbols is the Rainbow Flag, and its rainbow of colors -- red, orange, yellow, green, blue and purple -- represents the diversity of our community. The first Rainbow Flag was designed in 1978 by Gilbert Baker, a San Francisco artist, who created the flag in response to a local activist's call for a community symbol. (This was before the pink triangle was popularly used as a symbol of pride.) Using the five-striped "Flag of the Race" as his inspiration, Baker designed a flag with eight stripes: pink, red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo and violet. According to Baker, those colors represented, respectively: sexuality, life, healing, sun, nature, art, harmony and spirit. In the true spirit of Betsy Ross, Baker dyed and sewed the material for the first flag himself. Baker soon approached San Francisco's Paramount Flag Company about mass producing and selling his "gay flag." Unfortunately, Baker had hand-dyed all the colors, and since the color "hot pink" was not commercially available, mass production of his eight-striped version became impossible. The flag was thus reduced to seven stripes. In November 1978, San Francisco's gay community was stunned when the city's first openly gay supervisor, Harvey Milk, was assassinated. Wishing to demonstrate the gay community's strength and solidarity in the aftermath of this tragedy, the 1979 Pride Parade Committee decided to use Baker's flag. The committee eliminated the indigo stripe so they could divide the colors evenly along the parade route -- three colors on one side of the street and three on the other. Soon the six colors were incorporated into a six-striped version that became popularized and that, today, is recognized by the International Congress of Flag Makers. In San Francisco, the Rainbow Flag is everywhere: It can be seen hanging from apartment windows throughout the city (most notably in the Castro district), local bars frequently display the flag and Rainbow Flag banners are hung from lampposts on Market Street (San Francisco's main avenue) throughout Pride month. Visiting the city, one cannot help but feel a tremendous sense of pride at seeing this powerful symbol displayed so prominently. Although the Rainbow Flag was initially used as a symbol of pride only in San Francisco, it has received increased visibility in recent years. Today, it is a frequent sight in a number of other cities as well -- New York, West Hollywood and Amsterdam, among them. Indeed, the Rainbow Flag reminds us that ours is a diverse community, composed of people with a variety of individual tastes of which we should all be proud.

I am BUTCH :p‏

I am BUTCH

I am Butch because my passion is not unlike the hunger of a starving young wolf and it runs deep.


I am Butch because my physical strength will never surpass the strength I have within.


I am Butch because I can take a drag-queen to a dance and treat her like the woman she really is inside.I am Butch because I will always try to run faster, throw farther, jump higher then any man.


I am Butch because I play tackle football in the rain, in the fall time, with the big boys.I am Butch because I can take a beating.


I am Butch because my fiancee's son loves and admires me, I am his real-life super hero.


I am Butch because God made me the way I am and I wouldn't trade it in for anything else.


I am Butch.

101 romantic ideas




101 romantic ideas







Remember to say "I love you" and "I need you" often.
Walk hand in hand in the rain.
Write a love poem.
Call a radio station and dedicate a favorite song.
Write "I Love You" in lipstick or shaving cream on the mirror.
Hide love notes in a lunch box, briefcase or purse.
Make heart-shaped cinnamon toast for breakfast.
Place a love note in the personals section of the newspaper.
Take a carriage ride around the city.
Plan a surprise getaway.
Do your mate's household chores.
Write notes on future dates in their date book ("I love you," I miss you," etc.)
Make reservations at a favorite restaurant.
Let them choose the movie.
Give a foot massage.
Make a heart-shaped bookmark, and place it in their book.
Pop in a romantic music CD and slow dance.
Throw a just-because surprise party for two.
Buy a stuffed animal for your honey.
Read each other's horoscopes.
Make a list of the top 10 things you love about your partner.
Display it in a prominent place.
Tattoo your mate's name on your body.
Make an album or scrapbook of your favorite memories together.
Go camping together and only take one sleeping bag.
Send a mushy message in a bottle...a balloon...a sandwich...
Cut out a silly cartoon that you know they'd enjoy.
Shower together.
Dim the lights, and snuggle together on the couch.
Be the first to say "I'm sorry" and kiss and make up.
Give each other a full-body massage.
Kiss every hour on the hour all day long.
Send a gift basket of indulgent items.
Write "I'm hot for you" in the steam on the bathroom mirror.
Ribbon wrap your bed with a big bow.
Fill up the gas tank of your partner's car.
Act like teenagers. Maybe even pierce something!
Show up with a bouquet of flowers -- for no reason at all.
Play Scrabble® together, using as many "love" words as you can.
Run a warm bubble bath for your partner, with lots of lit candles.
Meet in the park for a picnic.
Hold hands.
Leave a trail of rose petals through the house, leading to a romantic candlelight dinner.
Make a donation in your mate's name to a special cause or charity.
Pick up their clothes from the floor -- without saying a word about it.
Watch an old black and white romantic movie and share a bowl of popcorn.
Reenact your first date.
Surprise your partner with tickets to a special event.
An unexpected hug can brighten any day.
Buy a silly, impromptu gift.
Send an email just to say "I'm thinking of you."
Bring home a balloon bouquet.
Serve breakfast in bed.
Make an ornament with a picture of both of you for the Christmas tree.
Play tag.
Wash and wax your partner's car, and leave a little note on the dashboard.
Plant a garden together.
Leave a mushy message on voicemail.
Stay at a hotel for the night, just because.
Make angels in the snow.
Every time you say "hello" or "goodbye", seal it with a hug and a kiss.
Take a drive in the country.
Spend the evening looking at the stars -- and make a wish together.
Cast a playful wink any time, anywhere.
Think up a list of silly little pet names for times when you're alone together.
Read poetry to each other.
Celebrate your half-birthdays together.
Put a picture of both of you in your wallet.
Buy that favorite book or CD for no reason at all.
Send a care package to work filled with treats like food, photos, candy, a love note, heart-shaped confetti, etc.
Go out for the evening and tell people you're on your honeymoon.
Take a hike together and carve your initials in a tree.
Write a thank you note for all the things you take for granted.
Make a fire in the fireplace and roast marshmallows.
Tape your favorite TV show and spend the evening talking.
Do the dishes together, then apply hand lotion to each other's hands.
Write a love letter to your partner and cut it into jigsaw puzzle pieces.
Decide on secret signals and use them to communicate with each other in large groups of people.
Schedule a regular mid-week "date night" for just the two of you.
Do the laundry together.
Romance Theater Weekend: reenact each other's favorite love scene - hers on Friday, his on Saturday.
Call your partner at work and ask for a date.
Pretend you haven't seen each other for a month. Act accordingly.
Send a written invitation to do something special.
Take turns reading to each other.
Stand outside the window and sing a romantic song.
Hide favorite candy in your partner's coat pockets.
Put a tape recording of your voice (saying anything) in the car stereo and turn it on so it plays when the car starts.
Go to a drive-in movie.
Get up to turn off the last light after you're both comfy-cozy in bed.
Hold each other tight during a thunderstorm.
Make a tape recording of favorite love songs.
Leave a bunch of bananas on the kitchen table with a note, "I go bananas over you!"
Hide love notes in a magazine.
Declare your undying love via a telegram.
Make a romantic dinner together, and serve it on your finest china.
Surprise your partner with a big kiss on the neck.
Give unexpected compliments.
Share an ice cream cone.
Have a picnic on the living room floor.
Draw a silly picture of the two of you. Frame it.

Sunday, November 25, 2007

DYKE



Dyke is loveDyke isThe spiral notebook under your mattress that weeps and moans and laughsand the deleted internet historyand the pride you feel even as you hideDyke is marching at Prideknowing that you areunited with the queersadmitted to a communitybecause you are a dykeand wondering if that may be ridiculousDyke is smashing gender rolesreclaiming words, labelsand breaking free of themDyke is drag kings and evening gownsMothers, daughters, familiesComing out, being outed, closet casesHesitating, deliberatingQuestioning, persistingDyke is falling in love with a person, not a genderand falling in love with a gender while searching for a personDyke is writing an essay exposing you to your professor and peerslike a mollusk being opened, exposing it's pale, vulnerable innardsthat you knew had been contained withinbut were still protected with a shroud of secrecyDyke is giving your partner long kisses goodbye at the bus stopCandlelit dinners and bar cruisingAnd knowing when you are single you remain a dykeDyke isThe lonely desperation of small-town isolationwearing rainbow jewelery and protest pins hoping someone will noticeor you'll see someone with them tooDyke is being who you areA womanA woman who loves other womanA woman who wouldn't want it any other wayDyke is beautifulDyke is who I am Dyke is love

اصل كلمه Gay

اصل كلمه Gay


GAYهذه الكلمة التي تعني السعادة، كيف تحول معناها ليصبح مثلي؟ وماهي المراحل التاريخية التي مرت بها حتى تأخذ معنى المثلية بدلا من السعادة، وهل لا زالت تحمل نفس المعنى القديم؟كلمة جاي تعني السعادة والبهجة، ولم يكن لها اي علاقة بالمثلية والمثليين، وتحولت هذه الكلمة لتعني المثليين خلال القرن العشرين، وهي مشتقة من الكلمة الفرنسية القديمةgaiفي اواخر القرن السابع عشر اخذت هذه الكلمة تأخذ اول معنى جنسي لها، فتم اقترانها بمعنى "المتعلق بالمتعة".. وفي اواخر القرن التاسع عشر انتشر مصطلحgay lifeوكانوا يقصدون به الافعال الغير اخلاقية على حد تعبيرهمفي بداية عام 1920 تم تحويل الكلمة لتشمل المثليين، وكان المثليين يطلقون كلمة جاي على انفسهم ليظهروا للعالم انهم في منتهى السعادة والبهجة في هم عليه وانهم منسجمين مع ميولهم الجنسيةالى الان، هناك بعض الكتاب الامريكيين والذين لديهم عداء تجاه المثليين يطالبون بارجاء كلمة جاي لمعناها الاصلي وان لا تقترن بالمثليين، ويطالبون بأن تكون الكلمة الوحيدة لوصفهم هي كلمةQUEERوالتي تعني اصلا الانشقاق على الطريق المستقيم، ويقولون ان ليس كل المثليين جاي لانه ليس بالضرورة كلهم سعداء...ولكن ما يثير غضبهم هو انه حتى كلمة كوير اصبحت متداولة مما يعني رضى المثليين عن انفسهم..وهذا ما يثير غيض العنصريين لان كل محاولاتهم اليائسة في سبيل الحط من قيمة المثليين قد باءت بالفشل الذريع...شي يديد تعلمته....أنجوووووووووووووي...

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عند حــايــز كل شي جــايــز

Monday, November 12, 2007

Friday, November 9, 2007

True Friends Last Fo-Eva


Mâ TяUø Fяîeηd
Written with a pen Seald with a kiss If you are ma friend Please answer this Are we friends or are we not ?You told me once, but I forgetSo tell me now and tell me true So I can say I'm here for you Of all the friends i ever metYou are the one i wont ever forgotAnd if I die before you doJust know that I died for a true friend like you I neva knew that life is so true Just bein with youMa true friend

http://alsaher.com/music/audio/friends.ram


Allow Me....




Allow Me....

Come to me in a warm and private place...
Share with me the attraction you see in my eyes...
Allow me to stand before you and undress you...
Allow me to run a bath for you...
Washing all the stresses of your day away...
Allow me to run my lips across your succulent body...
Allow my tongue to find the sweetest that lies between those luscious thighs...
Ahh. your taste is so refreshing and sweet...
Allow yourself to rest within my embrace...
Run your legs across my body and bring me closer your sweetness...
Feel my tongue encircle your sweet wonder of love...
Lightly...... Ever so lightly... I will make your ocean flow....
Bringing you to the place that only you and I can share.
I feel your ocean rush towards my face.
I smell the sweetness of your passion released.
Hold on Baby, tonight is ours.
Tonight we will fly to the rainbow, that sits across the sky.
Tonight , u'll be ma " Lesbo " .. Let's fly , up so high


by:
† Łe$bø îs Mâ ωøяld †
SttrawBerrY2@hotmail.com


Memories


Do not cry my love.
Do not be afraid of your memories.
They make us who we are today and who we become tomorrow.
Embrace your memories good and bad.
Learn from each and every one of them.
For each has a special gift to offer you.
Each, if taken in can help you become a better person.
A more understanding and compassionate friend to yourself and to others.
So wipe your tears away and allow yourself to see the rainbow above your head.
Memories are not something to dread.
They are facets of your life that one day become the fine crystals everyone admires


by:

† Łe$bø îs Mâ ωøяld †

I cry




I call for help;
They look the other way;
I need someone
You're not our kind;
How can I change;
Talk! Someone will listen;
But I don't know where I'm going;
Just be yourself;
Then how do I change;
Be yourself, just don't fall;
Ok, only it's a rough road;
We will help;
Help, there's a pit;
Jump;
But now a river;
Swim;
I'm here, at last;
There's no going back;
No one's there, no one see's me;
No roads lead back;
Help, help, please help me;
They laugh.

Thursday, November 8, 2007

lesbian MASK


lesbian MASK

( Behind The Mask I Wear )



behind the mask i wear
is a person i hate to be
because nobody ever gets the chance,
to see the real me.

behind the mask i wear
a coward lay behind
afraid of what the world dished out
with no safe place to find.

behind the mask i wear
a child runs from fear.
the boogeyman's out to get me
"oh daddy, are you near?"

behind the mask i wear
is a drunken sore that's me
to thirst that drink, it made me think
what a messed up girl, i be.

behind the mask i wear
fat clings to my bones.
no one loves me for what they see
dont call me names, throw stones.

behind the mask i wear
to look into the miror,
a child wanders aimlessly
as old age draws nearer.

behind the mask i wear
a new one's just been found
a mask that changed my attitude
and turned my life around.

Behind The New Mask I Wear
A New Gurl Not Like Before
Livin' A Perfect Life
A Happy Lesbian And Much More

Behind The New Mask I Wear
Got No More Tears
All Ma Friends Around Me Now
I Through Away Those Fears

No More Hurts,
No More Pains

Thanks God For Bein' Lesb

I'm Alive Again ...


" Lesbian Is Not A Durty Word
"
by:
† Łe$bø îs Mâ ωøяld †
SttrawBerrY2@hotmail.com

everything about tomboy(Androgyne)


everything about tomboy(Androgyne)
everything about tomboy Tomboy tomboy is a girl who behaves according to the stereotypical gender role of a boy. This can include various things: Wearing non-feminine clothes, typically for comfort or practicality or sport Enjoying boy's stereotypical games, interests and activities, such as running, jumping, climbing trees, science, and sports like soccer and baseball. Many girls can be seen as exhibiting a mixture of both tomboy and girly girl behavior(androgyne)and this has been held up by many as the "ideal" female lifestyle as their view is that if a girl either exhibits an extreme image of a tomboy or a girly girl, she misses out on too many experiences.� However, critics of this hold that such an idealistic image of an intermediate, "uni-sex" behavior is a stereotype by itself, and too general to actually mean anything. Some contribute, and some tomboys themselves think, the substantial cause of their inclination is spending their childhood and/or adolescence in an environment where the male presence or action predominates, and having therefore a lack of female role models. For example, a family with: more than 2 brothers and 1 or fewer sister, or a single father a school mostly of boys, hence the tomboy befriends few girls. Historically tomboys were defined by both behaviour (according to the stereotypical gender role of boys) and wearing boys' clothing. In recent times, as the use of "traditional" clothing such as dresses, blouses and skirts steadily declines among females, the distinction has become almost solely one of behaviour. A general increase in the popularity of woman's sporting events, (see Title IX), and other activities that were traditionally male-dominated is today lessening the impact of "tomboy" as a pejorative. many tomboys are androgyne........ Androgyne An androgyne is a person who feels that they do not fit cleanly into society's boxes labeled men and woman. An androgyne may identify with the gender identity of a combination of male and female or as neither / neutrally gendered. They may also use the terms non-gendered or bigendered. They may experience swings between genders. An androgyne is a person with the gender identity of either both male and female or neither. It is a misconception that androgyny is just a fashion statement, behavior, or set of visual cues. One could say that all androgynes are psychologically androgynous, whereas not all androgynous-looking people are androgynes. Androgynes sometimes refer to themselves using blended pronouns like Ze, Hir etc, and use a gender tag Mx instead of Mr. or Mrs. tomboy: 1. A girl with boyish ways, interests and behaviors; a boyish or butch girl . 2-agirl who wants to do boys stuff dress in sport is very active a tomgirl she didn't want to be a boy . She just wanted to do-the-things boys do shes very athletic adventurous ,strong ,direct , self-confident ,rude , rough, tough, logical ,mechanically-minded 2. A lesbian ; obviously meant to be jocular or sarcastic, but perceived as disparaging. androgynous: Being neither distinguishably masculine nor feminine ; blending both traditional male and traditional female what is atomboy ?. A tomboy is a girl who behaves according to the stereotypical gender role of a boy. This can include various things: Wearing non-feminine clothes, typically for comfort or practicality. Enjoying boy's stereotypical games, interests and activities, such as running, jumping, climbing trees, science and baseball. Many girls can be seen as exhibiting a mixture of both tomboy and girly girl behavior, and this has been held up by many as the "ideal" female lifestyle as their view is that if a girl either exhibits an extreme image of a tomboy or a girly girl, she misses out on too many experiences.� However, critics of this hold that such an idealistic image of an intermediate, "uni-sex" behavior is a stereotype by itself, and too general to actually mean anything. Some contribute, and some tomboys themselves think, the substantial cause of their inclination is spending their childhood and/or adolescence in an environment where the male presence or action predominates, and having therefore a lack of female role models. For example, a family with: more than 2 brothers and 1 or less sister, or a single father a school mostly of boys, hence the tomboy befriends few girls. Historically tomboys were defined by both behaviour (according to the stereotypical gender role of boys) and wearing boys' clothing. In recent times, as the use of "traditional" clothing such as dresses, blouses and skirts steadily declines among females, the distinction has become almost solely one of behaviour.

Lesbian Truth vs. A Misunderstood Society View


Lesbian Truth vs. A Misunderstood Society

View Society View: Lesbians look and act like men. Often referred to as "dykes". Lesbian Fact: Although there are some lesbians who do fit into the stereotypical description, there are plenty of lesbians who are very feminine looking and acting. I didn't know a lesbian had to play the part of a dyke to be initiated into lesbian hood. Society View: Lesbians were abused as young girls or had a bad experience with men. Lesbian Fact: The sad fact is that there are a lot of women (straight and lesbian) were abused as children. However, there are plenty of lesbians who were NOT abused as children and who did NOT have bad experiences with men. The fact is this: You are either born gay or you're not. You will realize it when you're young, older, old, or never. Society View: Being lesbian is a choice. Lesbian Fact: Thinking that being homosexual is a choice is like saying being attracted to blondes, red heads, brunettes, fat, skinny, black, white, Asian, or Hispanics is a choice. they do NOT choose who they fall in love with nor do they choose who they are attracted to. lesbians were NEVER attracted to the opposite sex since the day they were born. Although some may have dated the opposite sex in younger years or married in adult years, that doesn't mean that their attraction to the same sex was not there. It simply means that their "denial" superseded their inner awakening and identity. Many lesbians claim after coming out that they knew in the back of their mind that they were attracted to the same sex, but they "settled" on dating or marrying the opposite sex for not wanting to go against what society wants from them. It takes a courageous person to "come out of the closet" and admit to who they are. There are also many that will tell you that by their "choice" to marry the opposite sex didn't make them happy NOR make their partner happy in the long run. Was it fair to marry a man who you know you would never truly be fully in love with or be attracted to? Is this fair to the man not ever being fully loved (mind, body, and soul) by his wife? Is it fair to the woman to give up her desires for someone that is not for her and a lifestyle that will never make her truly happy? The ONLY choice that was made in these situations were not to being themselves and being true to themselves or to the person they married. Not living for you is a choice. Pretending is a choice. One more statement regarding "choice": Who in their right mind would "choose" to be lesbian knowing the battlefield (societies ignorance and hatred) that lays out there for homosexuals? Society View: Being a homosexual is all about sex. Lesbian Fact: Indeed there is a sexual factor in "homosexuality"; same as "heterosexuality". Sex and love are two entities. Anyone can have sex; only people in love make love. Most homosexuals are like anyone else --- they are looking for "love". In other words, homosexuals prefer the same sex partners for love and with love comes love making

PROUD OF BEING A LESBIAN


Yes I AM SO PROUD OF BEING A FEMALE AND A LESBIAN. I became a lesbian because of women, because women are beautiful, strong, and compassionate. "Rita Mae Brown " -You can't type what a lesbian is. We're anything and everything. The one thing in common is that we make love to other women. So give up trying to limit us. "Amanda Bearse, actor, television director " - There is nothing mixed up about a woman who loves women, who wants to have sex with them, or who identifies as a lesbian. It is society that is mixed up because it punishes people for not conforming to its gender stereotypes. "Edward Stein, editor of Forms of Desire: Sexual Orientation and the Social Constructionist Controversy" -But the fruit that can fall without shaking , Indeed is too mellow for me. "Lady Mary Wortley Montagu in The Answer " -Are there many things in this cool-hearted world so utterly exquisite as the pure love of one woman for another? "Mary MacLane, The Story of Mary MacLane by Herself " -Why should I paint dead fish, onions, and beer glasses?Girls are so much prettier. " Marie Laurencin, artist "

Being a lesbian Is Not....


Some ppl think that being a lesbian is da (curse) from God! and that by knowing one,they would be Sinner and would be thrown to Hell..!! Well for me,Being a _lesbian is not a Big deal..I mean I can accept the fact of having different ppl,with different mentality and cabability as well.. I can accept them as long as they are Human being..I dont even say that Eww this is a Bi-Sexual..gay ...black or whatever Being _lesbian... Is like that you have it in your nature...(tomboy) Acting in a Masculine way sometimes (I forgot the right spelling for the word but what I meant is in manly way)... I do have male friends..But I cant think of'em as lovers..Its like when you ask one guy (can u kiss ur best male friend and he says Eww!! Nope!! Never!!)..

lesbian pride


lesbian pride

It's truly not fair that you can have monogamous affairs and unfaithful relation, but the whole nation looks at us as " Lesbians" the start of that inflation. Every body say that we are a devil's creation for showing affection we become the infected people, like we are a disease or some common sickness... they talk so much trash, about how wrong I am, and that the promise land doesn't have a place for me. Last time I checked I didn't have to answer to anyone but the man upstairs" GOD" , but you don't care, the lord and me share, something that human hands can never tear. I can't blame them for not being open-minded, but at least take time to find the piece that's missing. Instead of dissing my lifestyle, make time here worthwhile, because whether you like it or not I'm still going to smile. Maybe you haven't realized it yet, or your brain is too small to accept the concept or maybe it's something you just don't get but. I'M A LESBIAN, so get over it!!!!!! *

There Is Nothing WRONG..


There's nothing ::Extraordinary----> when 2 gUrlZ talk all day long There's nothing ::Out of the ordinary----> when 2 gUrlZ talk all night long There's nothing :: Eccentric----> when 2 gUrlZ make love There's nothing :: Peculiar ----> when 2 gUrlZ hug There's nothing :: Strange----> when 2 gUrlZ sleep together There's nothing :: Unethical----> when 2 gUrlZ enjoy being girls There's nothing :: bizarre----> when 2 gUrlZ hold hands There's nothing :: weird----> when 2 gUrlZ kiss There's nothing :: inappropriate---->when 2 gUrlZ fall in love There's nothing :: wrong---->when 2 gUrlZ feel that is right

How do i know if i am a lesbian????????


How do i know if i am a lesbian????????


How do i know if i am a lesbian???????? Lesbians are women-loving-women. We are women who are sexually attracted to other women. We are women who may feel emotionally and spiritually closer to women. We are women who prefer women as our partners. As lesbians, we are not alone. One out of ten teenagers is lesbian or gay. Many famous women in history were lesbians. Lesbians are teachers, doctors, lawyers, factory workers, police officers, politicians, ministers, movie stars, artists, mothers, nuns, truck drivers, models, novelists. You name it, we do it. Lesbians are White, Black, Asian, Hispanic, Native American, Jewish, Catholic, Protestant, Buddhist. Lesbians are rich, poor, working class, and middle class. Some lesbians are in heterosexual marriages. Some lesbians are disabled. Lesbians are young women and old women. You name it, we are it. Lesbians live in cities and in the country. We are everywhere!!

all about lesbian &soft butch (Androgyny)


all about lesbian &soft butch (Androgyny)


What does it mean to be a lesbian? Lesbians are women-loving- women. We are women who are sexually attracted to other women. We are women who may feel emotionally and spiritually closer to women. We are women who prefer women as our partners. As lesbians, we are not alone. One out of ten teenagers is lesbian or gay. Many famous women in history were lesbians. Lesbians are teachers, doctors, lawyers, factory workers, police officers, politicians, ministers, movie stars, artists, mothers, nuns, truck drivers, models, novelists. You name it, we do it. Lesbians are White, Black, Asian, Hispanic, Native American, Jewish, Catholic, Protestant, Buddhist. Lesbians are rich, poor, working class, and middle class. Some lesbians are in heterosexual marriages. Some lesbians are disabled. Lesbians are young women and old women. You name it, we are it. Lesbians live in cities and in the country. We are everywhere. How do I know if I'm a lesbian? During adolescence, most young women begin to be aware of sexual feelings and take an interest in dating. Many young women feel physically attracted to men. But many other young women feel physically attracted to other women. You may notice that you feel turned on by other women. You may feel different from your girlfriends, like you don't fit in sometimes. When your girlfriends are checking out boys, you may find yourself checking out girls. Going out with boys may not interest you. You may find yourself wondering, "Why aren't there any men like these terrific women I keep meeting?" You may also feel confused or unsure about whether or not you're a lesbian. Many adults will tell us that we're too young to call ourselves gay, or that we're going through a phase, or that we don't know what we're talking about. That's their way of avoiding the fact that some of us are lesbian youth. You may feel confused because you're attracted to both men and women. That's OK. Some women have relationships with both men and women throughout their lives. Some may later decide to be exclusively lesbian or heterosexual. Our sexuality develops over time. Don't worry if you aren't sure. Am I normal? Yes, you are normal. It's perfectly natural for people to be attracted to members of their own sex. But it's not something that's encouraged in our society. Many people push away these feelings because of prejudice against gay men and lesbians. Most scientific experts agree that a person's sexual orientation is determined at a very young age, maybe even at birth. It's normal and healthy to be yourself, whether you're gay or straight. What's really important is that we learn to like ourselves. How do we learn to like ourselves All people have a right to feel good about themselves. We're all valuable human beings. Developing self-esteem is very important for young people. It's hard for gay and lesbian youth to feel good about ourselves because all around us are people who believe that we're sick, or perverted, or destined to live very unhappy lives. When we feel like we have to hide who we really are, it can make us feel like hurting ourselves, like through alcohol, drugs, or suicide. We may feel very isolated, fearful, and depressed, especially if we've had no one to talk to about the fact that we're lesbians. More and more, we, as young lesbians, are learning to like who we are. It helps to read good books about lesbians -- books that have accurate information in them and that are written about lesbians who are leading very fulfilling lives. It also helps to meet other lesbians because then we find out that lesbians are as diverse as any other group of people and that we've been told a lot of lies by our society. It can help to say to yourself every day, "I'm a lesbian and I'm OK." And try to find someone to talk to who also believes that lesbians are OK. Remember: it's normal and natural to be a lesbian, just like it's normal and natural for some people to be heterosexual. What about sex? Deciding whether or not to be sexual with someone is a big decision. You may feel very scared at the thought of having sex with another women. That's OK. Lots of us do, especially if it's our first time. Women aren't encouraged in our society to talk openly about sex, but it's important that we communicate about what we like and don't like to do sexually, whether we feel ready to have sex or not, and different expectations we may have about the relationship. And it's important to talk about whether we're at risk for HIV, the virus that is thought to cause AIDS, or other sexually transmitted diseases, like herpes. There are many ways that lesbians can be sexual with each other. We can give each other pleasure by holding, kissing, hugging, stroking, stimulating each other's genitals with our tongues and hands, inserting our fingers into each other's vaginas, rubbing our bodies together to stimulate each other, and anything else we want to do. We can use our imaginations! A soft butch is a lesbian who exhibits some stereotypical butch lesbian traits without fitting the masculine stereotype associated with butch lesbians. These traits may or may not include short hair, clothing that was designed for men, and masculine mannerisms and behaviors. Soft butches generally appear androgynous, rather than adhering to strictly feminine or masculine norms. In the spectrum of gender _expression among lesbians, a soft butch lies in between a chapstick lesbian and a butch lesbian. We are androgynous. We are beautiful. Androgyny is a term that can refer to two concepts regarding the mixing of both male and female genders or having a lack of gender identification. The first is the mixing of masculine and feminine characteristics, be it the example of the loud fashion statements of musicians like David Bowie, Annie Lenox and Brian Molko or the balance of "anima" and "animus" in Jungian psychoanalytic theory. The second is in describing something that is neither masculine nor feminine, for example the Hijras of India who are often described as "neither man nor woman". Androgynous traits are those that either have no gender value, or have some aspects generally attributed to the opposite gender. The term androgynous is often used to refer to a person whose look or build make determining their gender difficult but is generally not used as a synonym for actual intersexuality, transgender or two-spirit people. Lesbians who don't define themselves as butch or femme may identify with various other labels including androgynous or 'androg' for short

jion my group


jion the group my 4 boyat and all kind of lesbians: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Q8Lesbian


and this group also:



or contect the owner of the group if u cant jion in:



if u can enter or ther is aproplem just connect me or email me

Dike, Dyke


There are girls who dress like men who hate being called queer, butch, homo, or dyke. It’s understandable, the first three being offensive. But why should a woman be offended by being called dyke? This is because dyke has become a slang word. Let’s take it back.

We are named after Dike, the Greek goddess of moral justice. Why, I don’t know. But we are goddesses in ourselves. And when we are called butch, homo, fag, we forget that. Be proud. You are a Dike. You are a dyke.

Thursday, November 1, 2007

.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.



.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فلي هفواتي الصغيرة ولي أخطائي المريرة ولي ذنوبي التي أرجو أن لا تكون كبيرة .
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فقد أحقد ولكني سرعان ما أنسى ... وقد أغار ولكني سرعان ما أبحث عن التعقل
وقد أغتاظ ولكني سرعان ما أسعى خلف الرضا ..
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فقد أظن بأحدهم سوء ولكني أعود وأطلب الصفو والسماح
وألتمس العذر لتقصيري وتسرعي وقد أفهمه خطأ ولكني أبحث عن الحقيقة
أو أتناسى ما حدث حتى أنساه بالفعل ..
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فلي حماقاتي ... ولي جنوني ... ولي لحظاتي ولي جوانب عدة قد لا أحبها وقد أحبها
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
فقد أعيش في زمن غير زمني ... وقد أتقمص شخصية ليست لي
وقد أبحث عن شىء لا أملكه وأود بأن أملكه ... وقد أسعى إلى ما لا يجب أن أسعى إليه
.•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
قد لا أمتلك أجنحة بيضاء أو قلبا شديد البياض
وقد يكون أبيض ولو قليلا وقد لا يكون شيئا غير السواد وأنا لا أدري .
•:*¨`*:•. لسـت ملاكــاً .•:*¨`*:•.
ولكننـــــــي لست شيطاناً
فأنا إنسان بسيط ... أقدر قيمة الإعتذار حينما يكون واجب
وأقدر روعة التضحية إذا صار وقتها
وأسعى لغرس معنى الأخوة في نفسي قبل نفوس من حولي
وأمتلك قلبا شديد البياض يحمل بداخلــه الكثير من الحب
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Katherine Moennig (Shane McCutcheon)






Katherine Moennig (Shane McCutcheon)



Name : Katherine Sian Moennig .



Birth Date : 29th of December 1977.



Zodiac : Capricorn.



Place of Birth : Philadelphia.



Resides : Los Angeles, Vancouver.



Education : AADA. Hair :



Brown. Eyes :



Green. Height : 5'8.



Favourite food : Sushi.



Favourite colour : Blue.



Favourite movie : Cool hand Luke

Lesbian Sex tips

Lesbian Sex Tips


Need to spice up your sex life? Check out these sex tips to keep the heat between the sheets!Oral Sex Oral sex with your girlfriend is, I would say, probably one of the most erotic and fulfilling experiences when it comes to sex. The best advice I could give to anyone is to relax and to take your time and explore every single part of her. Use your mouth gently, dont just dive on in there!! Use long strokes with your tongue from top to bottom covering every inch of her, dont be afraid to suck gently on her clit and circular movements with your tongue never fails!! To really blow her away, take her clit into your mouth whilst putting your fingers inside her, try to master the beckoning motion so that you can hit her G-spot at the same time, If this is done correctly this is guaranteed to blow her away every single time!You can read all of the manuals and try to do al the things that the experts tell you but in my opinion when it comes to oral sex breaking "the rules" is the only way to go! Everyone is different and your girlfriend will let you know if she is enjoying it and which part she enjoy's most!

The most important thing to remember is to relax and enjoy it!MasturbatingMasturbating in front of each other is the ultimate turn-on! Watching your lover giving herself pleasure is seriously Indescribable as it is too horny to put into words! A lot of partners have yet to try this as one or both partners can be too shy. You could start of by masturbating yourselves at the same time and then progress on to one partner doing it while the other one watches. Maybe if you partner is the shy one, you could start off by touching her whilst touching yourself, just to show her that there is nothing to be shy about and just how easy it can be!!The 69The sex position known as Sixty Nine allows both partners to go down on each other at the same time. Oral sex is a great activity! A lot of people say that the special delight of sixty-nine comes from the mutuality, doubling pleasure and warmth-it's an equal sharing, feeling the same joys, given to each other, at the same time, in the same position, at a very intimate level, mixed with this is the obvious bonus that both partners can come at the same time. A Sixty Nine can be very pleasurable for both partners and can add a little bit of variety to oral sex! The Sixty Nine can be done in two different positions, with one partner on top of the other or with both partners lying on there side.

Ride your partners handOK I know this may sound a little strange but don't let that deter you even though the title of it or thought of it may have you in fits of laughter... trust me it will be having you in fits of pleasure later on. The way this position works is rather than you touching your girlfriend in the way you want to touch her, simply place your hand underneath her in bed (or wherever you may be laying down!), slip her onto your fingers and let her do the work... let her move in the way she wants to move to pleasure herself, in a sense she is F###### your hand... you may position your fingers onto her clit slightly harder at times to help her out a little but she will press and move harder as and when she wants to... and trust me when she cums it will be explosive! This is also a great experience for you, as you can feel exactly what she wants, how hard she is pressing, F######, and finally how hard she is Cuming...From the Front and BehindThis one is definitely one to try, essentially this is doing you girlfriend from both the front and behind. As you are laying next to her, she should have her right leg on your hip with her legs slightly open, you should then place your left arm over her so that you can touch her from behind (with your left hand). Then, with your right hand begin to touch her clit, play a little, don't go straight in... get her into it... once you can feel her really getting into what you are doing to her and how you are making her feel, then begin touching her from behind also, as you rub her clit harder, also show her how wet she is by slipping your fingers slowly around her clit... now you should put your finger inside her and move this in the beckoning motion as you rub her clit hard again, continue to do this until you sense she is close to cuming, then move your finger in / out fast (essentially truly F###### her), as you continue to rub her clit hard, you may insert two fingers if you / she wishes. This will make her feel amazing as not only are you touching her in one of the most intimate ways, you are also deep inside her.F### your Partners LegAs you lay next to your partner, begin to play with her with your hand, touch her gently... be passionate, caressing all of her... Once you sense she is arroused then turn and get one of your partner's legs between your legs, grip this with your legs, and as you touch her slowly rock on her leg, so that this presses on your clit. As you touch her harder, then rock harder... this is a great way of cuming together. It is a great turn on for your partner also as she can feel just how hard you are rubbing yourself onto her, as you are touching her at the same time.Erotic MassagePut on some Romantic music, dim the lights and burn some candles. Place a duvet on the floor and then bring your partner into the room, leading her by the hand. Lay her down and slowly undress her as you kiss her. It is best to do this with some Oils, or alternatively you can also use Moisturiser. Put some oil or cream on your hands and run your hands all over your partners body, sensually rubbing the oil or cream into her skin. Mix hard rubbing and soft rubbing, and each time you run your hands over her body from top to bottom, get closer to her inner thigh and breasts, so she gasps each time you get closer. This is a very sensual and passionate feeling for both of you.Now begin to get a little harder with your touch, and as you get near to her breasts hold them hard in your hands, so your partner can feel how much you desire her. Kiss her neck and follow down her stomach, then back up and kiss her on her soft lips. Then hold her face and kiss her deeply, as you again cup her breasts tight in your hands. Now, begin to massage her again across the whole of her body, this time combining hard and soft massage movements with soft tickling with your nails. This combination of touching your partner will envoque an an amazing combination of feelings across her body. As you near her breasts, again caress these and kiss her passionately, and whisper to her softly how much you love her, and how amazing she feels and how much you desire her. As you run your hands back down her body slowly brush your fingers over her clit, then kiss her again, as you touch her deeply on her clit, tell her how much you love to hear her moan, and kiss her hard, as you touch her harder and deeper..




Wednesday, October 31, 2007

البوية والمجتمع والمواقف الي تصير بالطلعة

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البوية والمجتمع والمواقف الي تصير بالطلعة
قوة اليوم بتكلم عن موقف مستحيل يمر اسبوع بدو لا يصير حق واحد من الناس اليي مثلناالبويا.او بالنسبة للترفييين الناعميين من الشباب وهالموقف اهو نظرة الناس اليي موعاجبهم لنا واليي بالبداية اقولهم طزززز فيكم اذا مابتفهمون راح اتكلم عن هالموقف بالنسبة لنا احنا البويات بما انه يامرت علييي مواقف وبقولكم بعد شلون تقدرون تتعاملون مع هالموالقف بعدشوفوا بالنسبة خل البويية المتحجبة...يعني البوية ماشيية بحالها واهيا جذي من اللله حاسها انها ريال ومع هذا لابسه حجاب ومتحملة مع انها ريال اوكيي وفوووق هذا كلللله الناس موعابجها بعض هالناس تلاقييه يطالع ولايقط حجيي...بختصار اليي يقط حجي فكر اول على حسب القطة اليي قطها وعلى حسب المكان والموقف وعلى حسب مزاجك رد علييه..اذا حسيت كلامه يسوى انك ترد عليييه رد...اذا كان مزاجك زفت عاااااااادي لول رد عليييه ...وجنه العييد وطلع حرتك فيييه...اذا كان المكان يسمح احسن واحسن بعد مع انه انا شخصيا مااااايهمني المكان اذا طق براسيييي ارد اررررد وارد على اهل اليي يابووووه بعدبالنسبة حق البوية المو متحجبة ....ممم لازم يتنحون اول شيي ويكلمون روحهم ويفكرون جنهم ميانييين ويقولون هذيي بنت ولا ولد ...انا اقول لليي يتسائل مال البوية اليي انت شايفها تقعد معاك بغرفه وتطبق عليييك الرجولة عدل عشان تعرف اهيا بنت ولا ريال...ياخيي خلووه بحاله اهو بنت ولا ريال احد قرب صوبك ولا قالك ياخيي تكفا ابيي اكلم هلك لوووووووول ...ولاعسا ماشرر ليش خاب روحك وتتكلم واللله البعض منهم وهم ياذون البوية ويقط حجيي ومعصب جنك قايلة تكفا اهلك ابيييييهم لووووووووووول والللللللللله...وعلى فكرا ترا هم يا حبابيب قلبيي البويات ياليي تحسون انكن رييياييل بقولكم شغلة... ترا اخذوهم على قد عقلهم حرام مومنهم..يعني تخيلو الواحد من هالشباب اليي يذون صج تلاقيييه خروف وتااافه بس اهو شايف انه بالجسم ريال ومع هذا يشوف الينات مايروحون له يروحون للبويات وماتبونه ينقهررررر لوووووووووول الا لينقهر وينبببببببط واشكره وبكل صراحه اقولها لكم البعض تفكيره جذي"يقول حق نفسه انا ريال وجسميي ريال وعضو جنسيي وعندي عضو ذكريي والبنت الليدي تفضل ببووويه علييي"!!!لووووووول ايي اكييد تفضل بوييه عليييك اذا كانت كفو...لانه مو اي ريال ريال ولا اي بوووويه بوووويه...اذا الوحدا تستاهل ليش لا واللله اذا البنت مرتاح مع اي واحد حتا لو كان بويه اكييد مابيترس عينها احد الا هالبويه عرفت ياماما ياخروف(الكلام للناس التافهه اليي تاذيي خلق الللله والكلام للناس الي ياذون البويات ) بالنسبة لل البوية الي معاها اهلها شوفي ياخوي البويه الغاليي ..انت مدام طالع مع اهلك عاديي تحمل احتمال كبير يشوفك كلام واذييية وتمر على قطيييع من الخرفان لول عاديي حبيبي...لاتتاضايق لانك حتا لو واحدج عاديي هم احتمال كبير تتاذى من الناس الهييلق اليي ياذون...عرفت يالغاليي...فانت حاول تسكب الا اذا الموقف احتااااج عااااااااادي امسك لك ايي شيي واغسل اليي جدامك امسك اي شغلة واكسرها على راس الي يتحرش باهلك ولو هم 10 ولا 20 ولا حتا 30 عاديي اكفخ لك واحد منهم وبعدييين عاااااااااااااادي انشالله يمسكونك بعدها وتنطق عادييي حتا لو يذبحونك على الاقل تموت ريالولا اذا معاج سجيين ولا شيي عاديي عوره مدام انك قاعد تدافع عن شرفك ...انا مانيي عبيط الي كاتب هالحجيي ..ادريي ممكن تصير ليي سالفة ويقولن قاعد تحرض على شي غلط....اليي بقول ليي اني قاعد احرض على شيي غلط فهو موريال مدام انه يشوف انه الدفاع عن الشرف اذا كان الموقف يستاهل شيي غلط بسسسسسسسسس هذا كله بشرط اذا الموقف يستاهل اوكييوبعديين اذا كنت بمجمع ولا شيي جنه العييد اذا صارت سالفة احسن عشان رجال الامن يتلونهم مثل الخرفان ويحذفونهم برا المجمع لووولوبعديين حتا لو كانوا اليي قاعد ياذونك انت واهلك ناس هييلق وخرفان واييييد وبعديين تجمعوا عليييك وصار ضرب هذا راح يكون دليل على انهم موقدك لدرجة انهم تجمعوا علييييك وانهم موريياييل ولو واحد فيييهم ريال مارضا انه يجمع ربعه عليييكبالنسبة لوبة الي مع حبيبتهااذا كنت اخوي البوية مثلا ويا حبيبتك وااذووووك لاتخليي باي سهولة يعكرون عليكم طلعتكم وحاول تسكب ..واذا زادوا عااديي اق بحبيبتك زيادة وخلها تلصق فييك خل يموتون قهرررر اكثررررر...وتذكر انه حرام مومنهم من القهر لووووووول :) :) :)اسال مجرب :)وفي ناسة من الي موعاجبهم اكييد قاعد يقول واللله لو اشوف بوية ولا اسويي جذيي واسوي واسويي ...اقول حق الناس اليي جذيي مهما قلت بتسويي بعرف شلون اكسر راسك واكسر فيييك لانه الواحد منه ريال وانتوا ماتهزوووونه ...عرفت ياشاطر روح العب بعيييد :") :) :) وعلى راسييييييي كل الناس الي مايديينا وحاسين بمعاناتنا واليي مالهم شغل فينا لو شافونا ويعذرونا لانهم عارفييين انه واااااااااااااايد ناس جذي من اللله ويكفيييهم اليي فيهموعلى راسي كل البويات اخوانيي الغالبييين من الناس الي يردون على اذا تنرفزا من الناس اليي ياذون...وعلى راسيي حتا اليي يكبرون عقلهم وراسهم وماينزلون نفسهم انه يردون على هالخمة والهايييلق من الناس التافه وللكل تحياتيي

What is lesbian?



What is lesbian?



1. What is lesbians?

Lesbianism starts with feelings. A woman can feel love and affection for another woman, and also feel sexually attracted to her. She can fall in love with women and want to express these feelings in a sexual way. If she has these feelings mainly or only for women, she may call herself a lesbian (or gay woman or female homosexual).

2. Can any woman be a lesbian?


Not every woman is a lesbian, but many women do have lesbian feelings. Most women are involved with men or married. Some of these women are lesbians. If a woman chooses to be a lesbian, she is one. Many women do not have a free choice about the way they want to live and love, but they may be lesbians also. Any woman can be a lesbian: your neighbour, your doctor, your sister, your teacher, your daughter.


3. How many lesbians are there?


According to surveys done at different times and in different countries, one to two out of every 20 women are lesbians. Some research has found that 50 percent of the women interviewed had lesbian experiences and feelings. There would be many more lesbians if women had a free choice. But currently it is considered 'normal' in most societies to be heterosexual (women loving men) and 'abnormal' to be homosexual (women loving women).



4. Where in the world does lesbianism occur?


Everywhere, in every country, culture and society. But in some societies women are free to choose, while in others women have little choice about how they will live. It may seem that in western countries, where it is often easier to be a lesbian, that there are more lesbians, but this is probably not correct. Society may influence how visible lesbians may be, and society may suppress lesbians, but the feeling cannot be killed. As international lesbian networks grow, we learn about more hidden groups and individuals in more and more countries



5. What causes lesbianism? Can it be cured?

Some lesbians believe they are born lesbian, others feel that they have chosen to be lesbian. There may be many causes, just as there are many causes that make someone heterosexual. But why try to find the cause or causes? For a long time homosexuality was considered a disease. 'Cures' such as injecting lesbians with female hormones or placing lesbians in rehabilitation camps were tried. Homosexuality is not an illness and 'cures' such as those above amount to physical and mental torture

6.How do lesbians live and love together?

Lesbian relationships take many forms. There are single lesbians, celibate lesbians, monogamous lesbian couples, lesbians who live together but are not monogamous, lesbians who also have relationships with men. The important thing is that everyone has a free choice about creating her own way of life. Many lesbians do not want to imitate heterosexual ways of living, where one partner is feminine, the other is masculine, dividing the roles according to the sex. The same is true for sexual loving: you find out, by yourself and/or with other women, what you like and what you don't like. There are no rules except the ones you make for yourself.

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

FAITH HILL - Beautiful


Beautiful FAITH HILL"
I love the way you stand in my wayYou won't move 'til you get a kissand how you tell me that my name tastes so sweet on your lips I love the way you hold me with your eyes Hold me so tight that i can't moveIt's like everything i've ever known is a lieand you're the simple truthIs it a dream or is it real? All i know is you make me feel so beautiful beautiful You make me feel so beautiful beautiful You make me feel sobeautifulI love how soft you touch my skin like you're touching the wings of a butterfly I wish we could just lock ourselves away in a room where there was no such thing as time I've never let anyone get this close I've always been afraid but you break down every wall and yet i feel so safe Every part of who i am is so in love cause what i have is beautifulbeautiful You make me feel so beautiful beautiful You make me feel so beautifulbeautiful You make me feel so beautiful beautiful You make me feel so beautiful you make me feel so beautiful beautiful

لماذا نكرر أخطائنا !!

لماذا نكرر أخطائنا !!

الحياة هي عالمنا الواقعي الذي يحتوي على مجموعة من التجارب والمواقف المليئة بالفرح والحزن والحب والغدر والخيانة .. الخ
بالواقع هو خليط من هذه المواقف .. جميعنا مررنا بها .. أحيانا نقع بها أو ربما نوقع شخص بها .... عمدا أو عن غير قصد ..
نحن بشر معرضين للوقوع بالفشل .. ولسنا معصومين من الخطأ ... فهذه طبيعتنا .. ليست هذه هي المشكلة ..!!
فالوقوع بالخطأ يجعلنا أكثر حذرا .... فنعتبره درسا تعلمنا منه .. ودائما يقولون الحياة تجارب ... بغض النظر هل كان مؤلما أو مأساويا وترتبت عليه عواقب !! لأنه بالواقع قد حدث ولا نملك آلة الزمن لنعود بها حيث كان بإمكاننا تفادي هذه المشكلة أو هذا الخطأ !!

فالأهم هو إصلاح هذا الخطأ وترميمه والبدء من جديد ... كلما كان إيمان الشخص بالله قوي كلما كان أقوى بمواجهته للمصاعب والحياة ..

لكن ... وبعد هذا .. هل نتعلم من أخطائنا ..!!

إذا كانت الإجابة بنعم .. فهنيئا لكم ...

أما إذا كانت الإجابة بلا ..... فهنا تكمن المشكلة الكبرى ....

وهي الوقوع بالخطأ .... ثم الوقوع بالخطأ ...... وتكرار هذا الخطأ ... لماذا !!

لماذا نكرر أخطائنا .. ونقع بنفس المشكلة في كل مرة ..!!

هل ضعف في الشخصية ...؟

أم نعتقد بأننا أذكى من أن نقع بها مرة أخرى ... ؟

أم لأننا نعرف أن الوقوع بها لا يشكل فرق .. فقد أصبحنا غير قابلين للكسر وضد الصدمات !!

ربما أخطاء نقع بها نتيجة اتباعنا لأهوائنا بغض النظر عن العواقب !!

أم بسبب نيتنا الصافية .. دائما نفهم الأمور بأنها لمصلحتنا وغير مؤذية وأن جميع الناس مسالمين !!

ربما لأننا نستسهل الأمور حيث بأننا قمنا بها من قبل ... ولم تكن ذات الصعوبة والمشكلة .. حيث نعلم بأنه خطأ بذاتنا ولكن لا يمنع من تجربتها وتكرارها ..!!

ربما الإجابة أحد هذه الأسباب التالية وربما هي أسباب لم أعرفها ...

عندما نكرر الأخطاء ...... ونظل نكررها .. نحن في الواقع .. نتألم ... ونتألم كثيرا ..

غالبا ... ما نخفي هذا الألم ... وتكون ردة أفعالنا .. بأننا خضنا هذه التجربة ونحن نعلم بفشلها .. ونتظاهر وكأن شيئا لم يكن ..

ولكن هو شي مؤلم ... نظل نلوم أنفسنا بالغباء .. لماذا نصر على فعل شي ودائما نفشل به أو فعل نكرره وهو خطأ ...!!

ربما لأن غيرنا قام به على أكمل وجه أو ربما كان الحظ بجانبه... ولم تواجهه المعضلات .. وبالتالي كون أي شخص قام به .... ممكن أن أكون أنا التالي ...!!


سأقول لكم معلومة أو فكرة .... أخبرتني بها صديقتي العزيزة ... وأعجبتني كثيرا .. وجعلتني فعلا أفكر وهي ..

" عندما نقع بالخطأ نفسه أكثر من مرة .... وبنفس الطريقة .... يجب أن نعيد النظر في شخصيتنا وتصرفاتنا ... فالوقوع به أكثر من مرة ... يعني الخلل من ذاتنا نحن فاللوم يقع على الشخص نفسه "

ربما يقول البعض حسنا .... فأنا طيب جدا ودائما يستغلني الناس ... وأقع بالخطأ .. فهل طيبتي هي مشكلة !! وهل علي أن أكون قاسي وأغير طبعي ....

طبعا لا .... لكن تذكر الطيبة لها حدود ... وأن هناك ناس من حولك استغلاليين .... فلابد أن تتحكم بطيبتك ... هنا تبدأ مهمتك ..

فالنفس أمارة بالسوء ... أي شخص تتوافر له الظروف والفرص .. سيستغلها حتى لو كانت تضر بغيره ..!!

وهذه الصفة تنطبق على صفات كثيرة .. تكون صفة رائعة ولكن ممكن تسبب المشاكل للشخص نفسه ... إذا لم يعرف كيف يتحكم بها !!

نحن دائما نعتقد ... بأننا عندما لا نضر شخص ونتمنى له السعادة ... فهو بنفس الوقت يتمنى لنا الشي نفسه .. ولكن عندما تتضارب المصالح والرغبات ..

فهذا الشخص يريد مصلحته الشخصية فقط وما يسعى إليه !!

للأسف نعم للأسف ..... ولكن هذا الواقع ... يوجد الخير ويوجد الشر ... فعلينا التعايش معه .. شئنا أم أبينا ...

عزيزي .... فلا تكن صارم ولا ترخي ... فالخطأ خطأ والصحيح صحيح ...وعندما نخطئ فلسنا بمنبوذين .. ولكن تعلمنا ...

ألا يحدث أحيانا .. نخطئ بسؤال بالامتحان وبعد فترة يعاد الامتحان ويكرر هذا السؤال ونخطئ به مرة أخرى ... !!

نحن هنا بتحد مع الذات ..... "إما أنا ........أو السقوط إلى الهاوية"

لن أجعل من نفسي أضحوكة ..... ولن أستسلم ... ولن يخدعني أحد مرة أخرى .... ولن أتساهل كوني متفهمة.... ولن أتذاكى أيضا ....

سأحب ذاتي ... ومصلحتي .... وسأحترم عقلي وقلبي ...

إلى الأمــــــــــــــــــام..... سر

Shane the tomboy androgyne in the l wordShane McCutcheon




Shane McCutcheon
(Katherine Moennig)



CHARACTER PROFILE

Shane not only does the ladies hair but she does the ladies. As many as she pleases and she makes no apologies about it. That is until she met the married woman Sherry who broke her heart and put Shane on a war path vowing to never fall in love again. Watch out ladies......Shaney is BACK! Then she met the hottie named Carmen whom she seems to really like screwing but that's all she was willing to give. That is until Carmen started to date Jenny and continued to pop up in Shane's life making it hard for Shane to deny her feelings. Eventually Shane admitted her love for Carmen. What will happen in S3?






Fun Facts About Shane:
Shane has slept with an enormous amount of women
Shane does drugs periodically (well we only saw it periodically)
We know nothing about Shane's family except her mother didn't raise her brother & her together
Shane fell in love with a married woman named Sherry
Sherry's husband was financing a hair salon for Shane
He put a stop to it after he found out about Sherry
Shane got popular doing hair & got to work for a high powered woman
Shane had to keep Sherry's daughter from falling for her
Shane met a DJ named Carmen and fell in love
She tried to resist being in love with Carmen
She finally gave in and admitted her love to Carmen
Shane had a girl stalk her because she was hurt that Shane did a wham bam thank you maam on her *hehehe*
She wore a dress and heals for Carmen's family




Yes this may shock some of you small minded people...



Yes this may shock some of you small minded people...
If you have me very well, you know that I am a very proud lesbian, and amuslim I love god with all my heart and I will always remain that way, if not more. God loves me for who I am, I was made this way by his holy hands and I will dye one day when he sees fit for me to enter his kingdom. God loves his creations no matter what, man or woman, we are all his children. I am a child of god. Yes I have struggled with the question of whether god loves me as a lesbian. But he has created me. God teaches us to love one another, who on this earth is to say any different. We know not what the lord wanted us exactly to live as, or be, but we are all made in his image. I never chose to love other women. I simply do. And I do not believe that I am going to hell or will be spending eternity in purgatory for this. I do not believe that it is a crime, or that it is a sin against the lord. I am just diffreant but that doesnt make abad humen
A close friend once recited to me... you say that I sin, you say that I am damned for hell ... so, once your judgment condemns you, I shall see you there." we have no right to "play god". And it is a sin to hate... so why hate someone for loving another person? I am in love and that will not change. And yes I am in love with a woman, yes I am a woman. Yes I am a muslim, and yes i pray, I , I work for the lord. Yes I am a lesbian, and yes, I truly believe that god loves me

Those who love katherine moennig (shane) from the l word



4 Those who love katherine moennig (shane) from the l word




i like her so much shes cool my fav

Name : Katherine Sian Moennig . Birth Date : 29th of December 1976. Zodiac : Capricorn . Place of Birth : Philadelphia. Resides : New York, Vancouver. Education : American Acad. of Dramatic Arts. Hair : Brown. Eyes : Green. Height : 5'8. Fav. food : Sushi
Katherine Moennig preferred climbing trees and skateboarding to playing with tea sets as a tomboy growing up in Philadelphia, PA. The daughter of a Broadway dancer mother and a violin maker father, Moennig was primed to perform at an early age. She first stepped on stage at 10 years old in a Children's Theatre Workshop production of "Winnie the Pooh" and opted to expand the experience by writing and directing an improvised version of "Pooh" with a friend. The duo performed their original production at Philadelphia's Free Library. She continued doing school productions before moving to New York and entering the American Academy of Dramatic Arts. Within two months of graduation, she landed an apprenticeship at the prestigious Williamstown Theatre Festival and acquired a wealth of experience working behind the scenes. During a second stint at Williamstown, she appeared in a production of Shakespeare's "As You Like It." She made her television debut as the elusive Jake Pratt in "Young Americans," a girl masquerading as a boy at the all-male Rawley Academy.
Katherine won a central role in a music video for the Canadian band "Our Lady Peace" just prior to landing her first television series with "Young Americans." She also auditioned for "Boys Don't Cry" (1999).In her leisure time, the young actress enjoys sleeping late, spending time with friends and walking around New York City.



BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE !!!!!!!!
4 Those who love katherine moennig (shane) from the l word

i like her so much shes cool my fav

Name : Katherine Sian Moennig . Birth Date : 29th of December 1976. Zodiac : Capricorn . Place of Birth : Philadelphia. Resides : New York, Vancouver. Education : American Acad. of Dramatic Arts. Hair : Brown. Eyes : Green. Height : 5'8. Fav. food : Sushi
Katherine Moennig preferred climbing trees and skateboarding to playing with tea sets as a tomboy growing up in Philadelphia, PA. The daughter of a Broadway dancer mother and a violin maker father, Moennig was primed to perform at an early age. She first stepped on stage at 10 years old in a Children's Theatre Workshop production of "Winnie the Pooh" and opted to expand the experience by writing and directing an improvised version of "Pooh" with a friend. The duo performed their original production at Philadelphia's Free Library. She continued doing school productions before moving to New York and entering the American Academy of Dramatic Arts. Within two months of graduation, she landed an apprenticeship at the prestigious Williamstown Theatre Festival and acquired a wealth of experience working behind the scenes. During a second stint at Williamstown, she appeared in a production of Shakespeare's "As You Like It." She made her television debut as the elusive Jake Pratt in "Young Americans," a girl masquerading as a boy at the all-male Rawley Academy.
Katherine won a central role in a music video for the Canadian band "Our Lady Peace" just prior to landing her first television series with "Young Americans." She also auditioned for "Boys Don't Cry" (1999).In her leisure time, the young actress enjoys sleeping late, spending time with friends and walking around New York City.



BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE !!!!!!!!

Happy Places


Happy Places...

My arms around you,
your breath upon my cheek.
Kisses, wet and warm,
your heartbeat...
in step with my own.
Tasting...
your sweat upon my lips.
Sighs, sweet whispers and moans...
raining down on me.
Scent of your hair,
lingering across my bosom.
My heart wrapping...
around the love that shines,
just inside your eyes.
Feeling that tremble...
just below your belly,
all happy places for me.

Holding your hand...
your hands in my hair.
Touching...
just barely touching,
you and I...
skin to skin.
Watching your quick wit
and laughter rolling...
an avalanche.
Sparkling droplets,
streaming down your curves...
in the shower.
A picnic in the grass...
seeing your smile glowing,
by a golden campfire.
Spooning...
just being by your side.
Drinking morning coffee...
you see,
it's the simplest of things,
that are happy places for me.

Scent of fresh cut grass,
lavender in the sun,
bread baking, popcorn popping,
your perfume and nag champa burning.
Air...
after a cool summer rain.
An ocean breeze, newborn babies,
and honeysuckle in dew.
These smells all happy places for me.

Listening to thunderstorms,
music, leaves rustling in the wind.
Your voice singing low,
(when you think I cannot hear),
laughter, children playing,
stories of the elders...
being spoken in majesty,
wolves howling.
Sound of your voice...
whispering I love yous.
Sounds I can bring to mind...
all happy places for me.

Tasting you,
peppermint melting on my tongue.
A nice glass of wine...
during a candlelight dinner.
Cool grapes...
from your lips to mine.
Ice cream, oranges, right from the tree.
Chocolate covered cherries and pop rocks.
Senses going wild...
because all of these are happy places to me.

Feeling the wind on my face,
cool water surrounding my body,
sun traveling my naked body.
Embracing your soul.
That after ache...
of making love for hours.
Nails, carving my back.
Hugs and positive energy.
Relaxed and kicked back.
Spiritual lifting of the soul.
You reaching out for me...
even as you sleep.
All of these happy places for me.

Seeing people reach out to one another,
sunrises and sunsets,
Christmas lights, lava lamps
and hummingbirds.
Watching ocean waves...
crashing against ancient cliffs,
rolling hills, starry skies,
and shadows on the walls.
Moments that ride by...
on my breath,
a treasure box of memories...
and all of these...
happy places for me.

RELATIONSHIP SECRETS


RELATIONSHIP SECRETS


ANNIVERSARIES
Always celebrate! Whether it's the 1st or the 50th, each year together is a triumph.

APPRECIATION
Let each other know how much you appreciate each other. You may already know but hearing it from each other is always better.

BEST FRIENDS
Be best friends preferably before being boyfriend-girlfriend. Take time to know each other so the relationship will be a deep one. Tell each other about your crushes, dreams and problems. Make sure he/she is your best friend before getting engaged. The strong bond of friendship will help you both survive tough times.

BOND
Make it a point to spend time together often but leave room for each other. Also spend time alone w/ each other, so that at the end of the day you could both share your experiences. This way, you stay interesting with your partner.

CHANGING EACH OTHER
Don't marry an as...le, j.... or a bi.... (an unsuitable person) You'll never change each other.

COMPLIMENTS
Always compliment each other. This will prevent feelings of resentment & thinking that one is being taken for granted.

DATE
Keep doings things that you both enjoy, do them together. Make time & continue to date to keep the romance - look good, smell good to maintain physical attraction

DIFFERENCES
Celebrate differences. Never force your ideologies down each other's throat. Give up trying to turn your partner into you. Accept differences, appreciate them.

FIGHTS
Fight w/the aim to resolve the issue. Don't outdo each other. The longer you extend the fight. The more chances that you'll say something hurtful that you don't really mean. As mad as you were w/ your partner, he/she is still the person who laughs at your jokes & thinks you're hot. Hear each other out, don't dig up old issues. Choose your battles. Make sure the fight will be worth it & that something will change in the relationship as a result of the fight.

FLAWS
Know that the perfect person does not exist. Know that just as there are things that you love about him/her, there will be things that will make you go crazy. We are only human with our own flaws.

FUN
Have fun together! This means keeping the fun & spontaneity that was there in the early days.
Allow yourselves to get silly - shower together, pee w/the door open etc. Being able to make each other laugh & see the lighter, crazier, absurd side is the best way to get through all the differences in personalities, adjustments in lifestyle & opposing viewpoints.

GOALS
Make sure you have similar goals. It would be difficult to keep your bond intact if your views are complete opposite.

GRUDGES
Quit tabulating grudges. Let it off. Discuss it, then trash it, don't recycle it.

KEEPING IT HOT
Keep it hot by traveling to diff. places together. A new setting will do wonders. Always have skin contact - be it holding hands, a massage or just plain leg rubbing.

HONESTY
Don't lie or hide things. The problem will only get bigger.

KNOW EACH OTHER
Learn each other's interest. It really keeps the conversation flowing!

HUG
A hug can be far better more intimate than a kiss.

IDENTITY
Don't lose your personality - that's why he/she fell in love w/you. Have separate interest & activities to keep your individual, & to be able to contribute more to the relationship.

INDEPENDENCE
Having your own income means you're the boss in your life.

IN-LAWS
Make rooms for the in-laws.

INTENTIONS
Wish each other well. Don't wish each other worst

ISSUES
Speak up about the awkward stuff now,like money & sex. The earlier, the better.

LISTEN
Listen, listen, listen. Hear each other out especially during arguments.

LOOK GOOD
Mind your appearance! Stay fit & healthy for each other.

LOVE
It all boils down to your love, chemistry & respect for each other.

MEMORIES
Remind each other of the old days. Do something that you used to do for each other before. It may even be corny but it made you two together. Experience new things together- from dining into a new restaurant to experiencing street food together to exploring to new places. It's the little surprises that make great memories.

MIND READING
No matter how long you've been together, do not think that you can read each other's mind.

NEEDS
Be good to yourself, then be good to your partner. That's what love is all about. Think about your partner. Will it make him/her happy? Will she/he enjoy it? Consider each other's feelings. Be very attentive & sensitive to each other's needs, physically & emotionally, that way your partner learns to do the same for you. Never take your partner for granted.

PRIORITIES
If one says it's important, then it is! Prioritize each other among other things!

SPACE
Give each other space. Have dates with your girlfriends, have your boy's night out. If you can't trust each other with this, then don't get married.

SORRY
Say sorry when you're wrong.

SURPRISES
No matter how long you've known each other, be open to surprises, both good or bad.

TEAMWORK
Think for two & always work as a team. Consult each other before making a decision because everything will always affect both of you. Strengthen couple power. In many ways, we have to decide based on what is best for the relationship in favor of our individual selves.

SUPPORT
Support each other's dream. Be willing to follow your passions, support your partner in his/her decisions & create new ones together. Two heads are better than one.

TALK
Tell each other's stories. Life goes by so fast & its easy to see how easily couple can grow apart. Whenever something funny, scary, exciting or juicy happened to you or to someone you know, tell each other about it & have your partner do the same. Keep each other in the loop of life, even by email if you have to.