love is......

love is......Someone to believe inand put their trust in you.Someone who appreciatesthe special things you do.Someone to be close to in your heart and in your mind.Someone you thought youwould never find.Someone who stands by youand whose faith can make you strong.Someone you will cherish everyday your whole life long.Love is built on faith and trust,and understanding, too.Love is a life that's full and richbecause it's shared with you.Today I know that you are the special one whom I can trust

I love you sweet heart
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Questions Most Commonly Asked of Lesbians

10 Questions Most Commonly Asked of Lesbiansand the Answers You`ll never Hear

...Q. What exactly, do two women do together? (Usually asked by a woman)A. It takes too long to explain. A lesbian quickie lasts hours. We lay there and discuss politics until we figure it out. But if you like I`ll show you. How about this evening at six?

Q. Which one of you is the man? (Usually asked by a man)A. We`re lesbian, not confused. Look it up

!Q. What do your parents think about it?A. They weren`t exactly tickled lavenderQ. Do you face any discrimination because you`re -- "that way"?A. None. The lesbian movement is a bodily function that involves the expulsion of our reproductive organs

Q. Why are you a lesbian?A. Let me show you a picture of my girlfriend

Q. Did anything in your childhood affect your choice?A. Definitely. There was a cute little redhead in my nursery school that I used to take naps with...

Q. Why do you have to tell everyone?A. I have a P.C. quota to meetQ. Is one of you "butch" and the other "femme"?A. Yes, but we trade off every time we roll over

Q. Do you plan to have children?A. We`re trying! (Wink-wink, nudge-nudge, know what I mean, know what I mean!)

Q. But wouldn`t you want your children to be straight?A. And miss the opportunity to be interrogated by the next generation of people like you?
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Lesbian Truth vs. A Misunderstood Society View

Lesbian Truth vs. A Misunderstood Society

View Society View: Lesbians look and act like men. Often referred to as "dykes". Lesbian Fact: Although there are some lesbians who do fit into the stereotypical description, there are plenty of lesbians who are very feminine looking and acting. I didn't know a lesbian had to play the part of a dyke to be initiated into lesbian hood. Society View: Lesbians were abused as young girls or had a bad experience with men. Lesbian Fact: The sad fact is that there are a lot of women (straight and lesbian) were abused as children. However, there are plenty of lesbians who were NOT abused as children and who did NOT have bad experiences with men. The fact is this: You are either born gay or you're not. You will realize it when you're young, older, old, or never. Society View: Being lesbian is a choice. Lesbian Fact: Thinking that being homosexual is a choice is like saying being attracted to blondes, red heads, brunettes, fat, skinny, black, white, Asian, or Hispanics is a choice. they do NOT choose who they fall in love with nor do they choose who they are attracted to. lesbians were NEVER attracted to the opposite sex since the day they were born. Although some may have dated the opposite sex in younger years or married in adult years, that doesn't mean that their attraction to the same sex was not there. It simply means that their "denial" superseded their inner awakening and identity. Many lesbians claim after coming out that they knew in the back of their mind that they were attracted to the same sex, but they "settled" on dating or marrying the opposite sex for not wanting to go against what society wants from them. It takes a courageous person to "come out of the closet" and admit to who they are. There are also many that will tell you that by their "choice" to marry the opposite sex didn't make them happy NOR make their partner happy in the long run. Was it fair to marry a man who you know you would never truly be fully in love with or be attracted to? Is this fair to the man not ever being fully loved (mind, body, and soul) by his wife? Is it fair to the woman to give up her desires for someone that is not for her and a lifestyle that will never make her truly happy? The ONLY choice that was made in these situations were not to being themselves and being true to themselves or to the person they married. Not living for you is a choice. Pretending is a choice. One more statement regarding "choice": Who in their right mind would "choose" to be lesbian knowing the battlefield (societies ignorance and hatred) that lays out there for homosexuals? Society View: Being a homosexual is all about sex. Lesbian Fact: Indeed there is a sexual factor in "homosexuality"; same as "heterosexuality". Sex and love are two entities. Anyone can have sex; only people in love make love. Most homosexuals are like anyone else --- they are looking for "love". In other words, homosexuals prefer the same sex partners for love and with love comes love making

Being a lesbian Is Not....

Some ppl think that being a lesbian is da (curse) from God! and that by knowing one,they would be Sinner and would be thrown to Hell..!! Well for me,Being a _lesbian is not a Big deal..I mean I can accept the fact of having different ppl,with different mentality and cabability as well.. I can accept them as long as they are Human being..I dont even say that Eww this is a Bi-Sexual..gay ...black or whatever Being _lesbian... Is like that you have it in your nature...(tomboy) Acting in a Masculine way sometimes (I forgot the right spelling for the word but what I meant is in manly way)... I do have male friends..But I cant think of'em as lovers..Its like when you ask one guy (can u kiss ur best male friend and he says Eww!! Nope!! Never!!)..

There Is Nothing WRONG..

There's nothing ::Extraordinary----> when 2 gUrlZ talk all day long There's nothing ::Out of the ordinary----> when 2 gUrlZ talk all night long There's nothing :: Eccentric----> when 2 gUrlZ make love There's nothing :: Peculiar ----> when 2 gUrlZ hug There's nothing :: Strange----> when 2 gUrlZ sleep together There's nothing :: Unethical----> when 2 gUrlZ enjoy being girls There's nothing :: bizarre----> when 2 gUrlZ hold hands There's nothing :: weird----> when 2 gUrlZ kiss There's nothing :: inappropriate---->when 2 gUrlZ fall in love There's nothing :: wrong---->when 2 gUrlZ feel that is right